by Michelle Martinez

3 Key Differences Between Masculine and Feminine Turn-On

January 17, 2021 | Sacred Sexuality

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Tantric wisdom tells us that there are some significant differences between masculine sexual energy and feminine sexual energy.

Unfortunately, we often assume that the way WE like to be turned on is also how our partners want to be turned on....

But if you're in a relationship with someone whose sexual energy tends to be the opposite of yours (you are more masculine, your partner is more feminine), then this approach won't be very effective.

Watch the video above to learn these 3 key differences between the turn-on process for masculine and feminine sexual energy (which can help a LOT when it comes to turning on your partner in a natural and effective way):

  • The positive ends of the "tantric pole" in men's and women's bodies
  • The different directions that masculine and feminine sexual energy naturally flow and build up in the body 
  • The different speeds with which each type of energy "heats up" and "cools down" (and what this means for getting each of your needs met)

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About the author, Michelle Martinez


With degrees in Psychology and Public Health, and VITA-certification as a Sex, Love, and Relationship Coach, Female Sexuality Coach, and Tantric Sex Coach, Michelle is on a mission to help women re-establish loving, pleasurable, and powerful relationships with their bodies and sexuality through mindfulness, tantra, and cultural change.

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