Fall deeper in love. Have the best orgasm of your life.

Repeat forever.

If you and your partner want to revive the emotional spark and sexual playfulness you used to have, I've got good news and bad news.

THE BAD NEWS: You can't go back to the honeymoon phase. That ship and its particular flavor of desire, fantasy, and mystery has sailed.
THE GOOD NEWS: You can create intimacy that keeps getting richer, hotter, and more TRUE than anything you've had before.

And I'll show you how ;)


Your relationship can't Reach its full thriving potential

without great sex

And if you are monogamous and feeling sexually bored, frustrated, or disconnected in your relationship, you have three options:

  • Option 1 - Grieve the slow and continual weakening of your partnership (and the overall turn-on you feel in your life)
  • Option 2 - Seek an exciting sexual connection with someone else, risking anything from guilt and anxiety to the complete and devastating unraveling of your primary relationship
  • Option 3 - Do something to actively fuel the sexual fire of your relationship so you can look at your partner with "goddamn I am crazy about you" googly eyes twenty years from now

MELT is for the people who enthusiastically choose option 3


Slow down... and level up

Surrender into relaxed full-body orgasms, bridge the heart-sex connection, and share deep sexual healing through the art of slow sex

Doing it differently

Here's what happens when you shift from surface-level, goal-driven sex to slow, conscious eroticism

Shift the expectation from tension to relaxation 

Few people know this, but not all orgasms have to be achieved through intense stimulation and tension!

By learning to breathe and relax into your pleasure, you and your partner can experience deeper, longer, full-body orgasms together!

Shift how you think of sexual energy from horniness to aliveness

Your sexual energy is not mere "horniness" -- it is turned on, life-force energy that can be cultivated within you, shared between you, and used for mutual awakening and self-realization so you can both become more yourselves in the world, and even more alive!  

Shift the source of sexual pleasure from aesthetics to energetics

Stop losing precious time telling yourself that once you look different, you can feel as sexy and worthy as you want to feel! 

Feeling turned on in your own body is an experience that is best supported by embodying your own sexual energy - which you can cultivate and enjoy no matter how your body changes.

The Process

How it works

Sample the Practices Together

Each module includes video and/or audio guides to teach you a range of slow sex and tantra-inspired sex practices.  Start wherever you want, and work your way through them at whatever pace feels best for you.

Check In with Each Other

This part is key!

Be sure to talk about how each practice is landing for each of you, so you can get mutually excited about which practices to go deeper with as a couple.

Customize Your Partnered Practice & Commit

Make adjustments as needed!  Once you know what you both like, you can customize the practices to meet your needs and lifestyle as a couple and create a consistent intimacy practice together, evolving it as needed.

Real Relationship Results

Client Breakthroughs

The following testimonials were shared from private clients who used the exact same practices you'll be learning inside MELT!


We LOVED the practices: the breath work, embodiment, dialogue exercises and communication tools helped us go deeper in our connection in unique and powerful ways, both sexually and non-sexually (but intimate) ways.
If you want to connect more to your body, to your partner, experience greater pleasure and ease and up level your sex life from being ‘mechanical’ to being magical, I would highly recommend working with Michelle!

Liam & Jerry

After the sessions we felt more connected, and after one of the sessions we did around the five senses [5 Senses Grounding & Awakening], we continued into deeply intimate lovemaking.
We believe Tantric practices are sacred and ancient, and as beginners Michelle made it lighthearted enough that we didn't feel intimidated, whilst remaining respectful of the core practices.

About Your Instructor

Michelle Martinez

Certified Tantric Sex Coach. Michelle is trained in the Vital & Integrated Tantric approach to sex, love, & relationship coaching through the Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality, where she also received specialized training to coach couples in Tantric Sex.

Trauma Researcher. With a PTSD research team in Seattle, Michelle has co-authored 16 publications appearing in the American Journal of MedicineMedical Care, the Journal of Clinical Psychology, the Journal of Alternative and Complementary Medicine, and the Journal of Traumatic Stress, as well as a chapter on Post-traumatic Stress Disorder in the 4th Edition of Integrative Medicine

Mindfulness Expert. Michelle spent a decade of her career in psychology research labs, exploring the benefits and mechanisms of change for therapies such as Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction and Dialectical Behavior Therapy on trauma and depression, which now inform her coaching practice.

Start Tonight!

Get immediate access to the course here:

MELT Fast Action Discount (standard investment is $497)


With your MELT purchase today, you'll get:

  • immediate access to all modules so you can start wherever you want
  • q&a support inside every lesson so you don't get stuck 
  • training to learn how to give (and receive) full-body orgasms

D & G

I always thought tantric sex was mainly about the other partner but what is incredibly liberating is that you can find joy and pleasure, and NO shame in your own sacred soul and body.
If you’re looking for a more holistic and open approach in your overall relationship—I highly recommend and encourage Michelle’s transformative work in Tantric Sex and Sex Magic as a way into a deeper love and truth with your self, your partner, your body, spirit, mind, and soul.

Joey & Liz

My husband and I have a really loving marriage, and also, after 12 years together and two young kids, it was so helpful to get fresh tools and bring us closer. 
The communication, connection, and erotic tools were so amazing to learn. So simple and yet so deeply meaningful.
In just a couple weeks we found so many opportunities for rich, connected intimacy that we just wouldn’t have noticed before. The time is there! Having practices to lean on opened up so much lasting depth and connection between us. 

Yeah, but...

Discerning if MELT is right for you

I really want to explore this, but I'm worried that I won't be able to get my partner on board to try it out with me.

I totally get it. My partner supported me doing these sacred sex/ tantra practices on my own but was somewhat resistance when it came to the partnered practices. 

That's why one of the first lessons in MELT is "How to help your partner get on board," where I share some insight around why your person might feel awkward or resistant around the idea of bringing more slowness, intention, and consciousness to your sex life, and how to approach that discussion to help them feel at ease and get their buy-in.   

If you want your partner to be on board BEFORE you purchase, you can get free access to the lesson by clicking here.


Is this course for cis-heterosexual couples or will the content apply to LGBTQIA+ relationships as well?

MELT is for partnerships of all kinds!  

I try to be label the audio-guided solo practices if there is anatomy-specific language included (e.g., "Sex Magic with cervix root" vs. "Sex Magic with perineum root") so you can choose the guidance that will resonate most with your embodied experience. 

MELT sounds amazing, but this probably isn't the right time to enroll because I'm single / not having sex with anyone right now.

It's true that you'll need a partner to do most of the practices in MELT.  However, there are some compelling reasons to enroll while you're single:

  1. A lot of the principles and techniques that you'll learn can be applied to the way you have sex with yourself, which will still help you build more sensitivity to the subtle energy in your body and experience deeper, longer, more full-bodied orgasms from self-pleasuring
  2. MELT can help you prepare your body to receive more pleasure from less stimulation during partnered sex when that time does come. 
  3. You get lifetime access to the course with your purchase, so you can always buy now and come back to it later when you've got someone who wants to MELT with you!
  4. You can use the solo sex magic practice (Module 7) to manifest that partner into your life ✨

What exactly is Tantra and how does it influence the practices in the course? I want to make sure this isn't at odds with my existing values and beliefs.

To answer this question, I'm going to unlock a lesson from the first module in MELT for you:

Slow Sex & Tantric Sex Explained


Are there Q&A calls included? How can I get my questions answered?

The MELT course does not include live coaching calls, but there is a comment section in every lesson where you can drop your questions at any time. I monitor those very closely and you can expect a response from me within 1-2 business days. 

Do you have a money back guarantee?

I do! But there are a few stipulations to be eligible for a refund:

  1. You will need to demonstrate that you have given the course content a try and it hasn't resulted in the outcomes you expected.  I don't give refunds to people who simply changed their minds, but I will absolutely give you your money back if the practices have not had a meaningful, positive influence in your love life.
  2. You will need to share a bit about your experience inside the course with me via phone call, Zoom call, or email, so that I can make it stronger, more accessible, and more effective for future students.  My aim is make my programs a no-brainer investment because students consistently receive value that far exceeds the dollars invested.

Set yourself up for a lifetime of continual heart-opening, pleasure-expanding intimacy

There's no limit to the depth of the intimacy or expansiveness of the pleasure you can experience when practicing slow and tantric sex!