Fall deeper in love. Have the most epic orgasm of your life.

Repeat forever.

UM... YES PLEASE

Someone has to say it: Sex is overrated.

The way most people do it, anyway...

Nobody WANTS a bad, or even mediocre, sex life. Especially not with the person you've (monogamously) committed to spending the rest of your life with.

But obviously, this happens. A LOT.

The honeymoon period ends, domestic life enters into a rhythmic routine, and someone usually ends up feeling like giving or getting an orgasm just isn't worth the effort most of the time.

Especially if one or both of you are highly ambitious, it can be really easy for a personal or professional goal to take center stage and become the thing that is energizing, exciting, and purposeful... 
...instead of your sexual connection being the thing that lights you up in all those ways.

There can still be attraction, of course... still intimacy ... and certainly, still very deep love.

But not a consistent interest in sex itself.

And look, this honestly wouldn't be a huge issue except for the obvious problem:

If you or your partner still wants sex consistently, the mismatched libido issue will inevitably become a source of increasing frustration, pressure, disappointment, and resentment.

My honest opinion?

If someone has lost interest in sex inside their marriage, it's probably because they feel it has nothing new or valuable to offer them. 

You've already had your last first kiss.

You'll never experience someone's naked body for the first time again.

Orgasms are nice and all, but so is a glass of wine and the latest Netflix series you're bingeing 

But with slow and tantric sex...

There is NO LIMIT to the new and meaningful  sexual experiences you can have!  

Slow, Conscious, Connected

There is sexual wisdom humans used to have and desperately need to remember

Human sexuality was never meant to be defined by the pornographic hard-and-fast pursuit of orgasm so many of us take for granted as "standard" heterosexual intercourse.

There was a time we knew better.

The taoist practitioners of ancient China and the tantric yoga gurus of India, for example, understood that sexual energy has incredible power to heal the body, elevate consciousness, and generate spiritual awakenings...

...and that orgasms, when experienced in a context of love, safety, and surrender, can become glimpses into the truth of our divine nature -- we lose ourselves in these explosions of sensation, ripples of energy flowing through us, and get a taste of our bodies' potential for genuine ecstasy in this life.

Here are a few types of orgasms, for example, you may not have known are possible:

Breast orgasms, energy orgasms, third eye orgasms, rage orgasms, multiple orgasms without ejaculation, full-body orgasms, throat orgasms, cervical orgasms....

The possibilities are -- no exaggeration -- truly endless. 

Diana Richardson

author of Slow Sex: The path to fulfilling and sustainable sexuality

"Whether sex is being discussed or ignored, repressed or expressed, enjoyed or endured, it is the single most significant aspect of our lives."

Learn what most people never will...

Here's what you'll realize when you shift from goal-driven, hard-and-fast sex to slow, conscious eroticism


Lesson 1

OPEN & RECEIVE
You can achieve deep orgasm through joy,  emotional openness, and relaxation instead of "naughtiness" and tension

Lesson 2

COME ALIVE
Sexual energy can be a source of aliveness, purpose, and creative breakthrough instead of mere "horniness" 

Lesson 3

LASTING CHEMISTRY
Cultivating attraction with sexual energetics, is more powerful and sustainable than relying on prescriptive sexy aesthetics 

So, where do you begin?

Introducing...

MELT

The art of slow & tantric sex

Strengthen the trust,  intimacy, and devotion in your relationship
Increase (and sustain!) sexual attraction throughout the day and satisfaction in the bedroom
Become an Erotic Power Couple with undeniable chemistry
Say no more - I AM IN!

Preview the Course

When you enroll in MELT, you'll have immediate access to these six trainings

The mortar in the foundation

Connected Communication

If you've ever found yourself having dinner next to your wife or husband, feeling completely disconnected from them, unseen by them, and actively trying to suppress a sense of loneliness that keeps creeping up... 

... desperately wanting to talk to them about it and FIX IT so you can go back to feeling close and safe and connected, but having no clue what to actually say that won't get misinterpreted and make them go on the defensive...

This module is for you.  

Communicating effectively, in a way that leaves you both feeling heard, seen, and understood, is like the mortar in the foundation of your marriage: It gives every brick you lay something to bond to, a place to settle into.

By the end of this module you'll know how to:

  • Receive compliments from your partner without depending on them to remember to do it (which can be difficult if words of affirmation aren't their own love language)
  • Ask your partner if there's anything they're afraid of or concerned about in you relationship, and share your own fears/concerns, so that neither of you are bottling it up, leading to emotional distance, anxiety, or avoidance
  • Listen to your partner with curiosity, non-judgment, and acceptance with an intention to better understand who they are -- rather than interpreting what they say as a reflection about who YOU are -- so they feel safe communicating honestly with you about what they think, feel, and want

Joey & Liz

My husband and I have a really loving marriage, and also, after 12 years together and two young kids, it was so helpful to get fresh tools and bring us closer. 
The communication, connection, and erotic tools were so amazing to learn. So simple and yet so deeply meaningful.
In just a couple weeks we found so many opportunities for rich, connected intimacy that we just wouldn’t have noticed before. The time is there! Having practices to lean on opened up so much lasting depth and connection between us. 

Bring your undivided attention

Dropping Into the Body

Whether your mind is going a million miles an hour trying to not drop the ball with anything on your to-do list, you're distracted by self-judgmental thoughts about your tummy, or you're worried that your body isn't going to get aroused when it should and everyone will feel shitty because you aren't turned on enough...

... bringing your mind and body into the present moment for a deeply embodied sexual experience can be a serious challenge.

Thankfully, this training will give you several incredibly effective practices to help you do exactly that.

By the end of this module you'll know how to:

  • Use eye gazing to practice allowing yourself to really be seen -- and truly seeing your partner -- while you build soul-level intimacy 
  • Take your partner through a 5-senses awakening ritual to ground them in their body with delicious sensual pleasure before lovemaking!
  • Use specific breathing patterns that create energetic synchronicity and amplify the chemistry between you

Liam & Jerry

After the sessions we felt more connected, and after one of the sessions we did around the five senses [5 Senses Grounding & Awakening], we continued into deeply intimate lovemaking.
We believe Tantric practices are sacred and ancient, and as beginners Michelle made it lighthearted enough that we didn't feel intimidated, whilst remaining respectful of the core practices.

Relax into Pleasure

Yoni & Lingam Massage

The neo-tantric massage is a client FAVORITE, and for very good reason!

The slow and relaxed build-up of sexual energy, partnered with the recipient's deep breathing and the giver's undivided presence, creates an opportunity to experience deeper, more expansive states of pleasure.  

Massage recipients may experience pleasure or sexual energy expanding beyond their genitals into other parts of their body, or notice a different quality of pleasure in the massage itself.

Receiving yoni or lingam massage improves your sex life in three big ways:

  • Rewire your body to receive pleasure from slow & conscious stimulation
  • Learn to build pleasure and relaxation at the same time
  • Release sexual trauma and stuck energy
HOT DAMN LET'S DO THIS

Fill every cell with pleasure

Full Body orgasm

Have you ever had one of your legs fall asleep, and then felt the tingly sensation move throughout your leg as it "woke up"?  

If so, you have experienced how sensation and energy can spread through the body, and in the Full Body Orgasm training you'll learn how to do this on purpose to experience bigger, more all-consuming experiences of sexual bliss!

  • Use your breath to spread your turn-on beyond your genitals and move it throughout the rest of your body and en
  • Feel your nervous system get a powerful reset when your sexual energy flows through every cell in your body  
  • For men, learn to have a full body orgasm experience that is separate from ejaculation (making it possible to have multiple orgasms without losing your erection and last longer than ever!)

My husband had an energy orgasm

Tantric Sex client

[My husband] totally had an energy orgasm last night after our last session. Like he thought he was finished, and totally wasn't! Super cool and powerful.

Get Wild Again!

Primal Sacred Sex

One of the first things to go in long-term relationships is wild sex... which is a bummer, because entering that passionate zone of zero inhibition is what makes exciting, creative, and unpredictable sex possible! It's what generates so much mutual attraction at the beginning of a new love affair.

Over time, however, the familiarity, deep love, and commitment of a devoted long-term relationship can make it hard to get into that wild, almost selfishly ravenous sexual space...

However, it is completely possible to restore that primal, animalistic energy in your lovemaking without letting it get objectifying and disconnected. 

By the end of this training, you'll be able to:

  • Use primal elements of your sexuality to move, sound, and behave from your impulse, without inhibition
  • Bring sacred elements to sex that will elevate your consciousness, support your inner healing and integration, and awaken you to the truth of your own wholeness and divinity.
  • Enjoy the best of both worlds: the energy and passion of primal sex, with the emotional depth of sacred sex!
SAY LESS - I'M READY

Manifest with Sexual Energy!

Sex Magic for Singles & Couples

Ever wonder what people mean when they say "sexual energy is creative, life force energy"?  

They are referring to the fact that sexual energy not only drives us to literally create human life, but that its creative powers extend beyond the biological realm and into quantum fields of potentiality.... meaning...

Your sexual energy can be leveraged to attract or create all kinds of things in your life -- more wealth, better health, an amazing partner, specific experiences you want to have -- and sex magic is one of the powerful, pleasurable ways to do that!

This is the perhaps the most woo-woo practice you'll find in MELT, but even if you don't "buy into" the metaphysical aspects of how it works, practicing sex magic will still bring you benefits like these:

  • Train your nervous system to get turned on by the things you desire most in life (so you aren't "getting off" on your struggle patterns anymore) 
  • Use visualization to get crystal-clear on what you and your partner desire most in your lives, so you can co-create a reality that feels exciting to both of you!
  • Have more sex! 

Sex Magik is Epic

In the week of our final session together, a man came into my world through a totally random series of events and he is everything that I desired in partner (and so much more). Sex Magik is epic - it really does work.
Micheal and I have been inseparable ever since.
He often tells me that he is mesmerized and captivated by me and I know that this is largely to do with this powerful work.

 

Claire G., Private Client

That's not all....

MELT students get an incredible bonus course to overcome physical insecurities so they can focus on the what they feel and stop getting distracted by how they look

Because guess what?
Phenomenal sex and intimacy require deep presence and embodiment.... not physical perfection

Stop letting body and beauty comparison dictate how you feel about yourself 

We all know those people: the ones who seem so comfortable and confident in their own skin and can draw people to them with a magnetic sex appeal...

....all without being conventionally "hot."  

How do they do it?  

Body confidence.

 

Inside Body Confidence Mastery, you'll find 30 unique mindset hacks, embodiment practices, and other tools that I use personally every day to keep myself from getting caught in body and beauty comparison traps


(annnnd snap myself out of them MUCH FASTER if they do happen)


By the end of the series, you'll have a handful of easy, practical, go-to tools that ACTUALLY WORK to help you....

  • Stop comparing yourself to others and love the skin you're in
  • Feel magnetic and worthy of the love, sex, and adoration you truly desire
  • Form empowering habits and beliefs that create connection with yourself and others

What I love best about this series it that YOU PROBABLY WON'T FINISH IT. 

"Huh?  Why is that a good thing?"

Because the reason you won't finish it, is that you'll find a few tools and practices within the first half or so that are SO EFFECTIVE for you, that you feel no need to finish the rest. 

And that's the beauty of it: 

You get 30 different strategies for developing body confidence mastery, but you only need ONE that RESONATES to change your whole life.
"It took me out of competition mode" 

I love that you point out there are ways to have what we want most even without looking perfect.  The questions you asked really touched me and helped me reflect on what it is I do want and how I want to feel.  


It also took me out of competition mode because I realized we may all actually be going for something different and I don't have to compete against other more beautiful or desirable women for what I want cause we may not even want the same thing.

"Opposite Action" is the one I've needed the most

"I think [Opposite Action] is the one I've needed the most right now... This is also applicable to self. If you are inclined to shame yourself for not getting that promotion, or guilt yourself for not following through on something, or hate yourself for gaining 8 pounds... do the opposite. Or being so mad at yourself and wanting to say all the negative self-talk for, perhaps, not doing the opposite when you wanted to or tried... do the opposite."

Zach / 

Annnd to make your date nights extra special...

I've got something else for you. 👇

Another Bonus Gift!

Yoni Pleasure Palace $50 USD gift voucher 

Yoni Pleasure Palace ships globally, so you can use your $50 USD gift voucher to treat yourself to any of their products, including:

  • Jade Eggs & Yoni Wands
  • Prostate Massagers
  • Yinn Water-Based or Oil-Based lube
  • Tantric Massage Oil
  • Squirt Blankets
MELT + Body Confidence Mastery + Your $50 Gift Card
ENROLL NOW TO GET THE GOODS!

About Your Instructor

Michelle Martinez

Certified Tantric Sex Coach. Michelle is trained in the Vital & Integrated Tantric approach to sex, love, & relationship coaching through the Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality, where she also received specialized training to coach couples in Tantric Sex.

Trauma Researcher. With a PTSD research team in Seattle, Michelle has co-authored 16 publications appearing in the American Journal of Medicine, Medical Care, the Journal of Clinical Psychology, the Journal of Alternative and Complementary Medicine, and the Journal of Traumatic Stress, as well as a chapter on Post-traumatic Stress Disorder in the 4th Edition of Integrative Medicine

Mindfulness Expert. Michelle spent a decade of her career in psychology research labs, exploring the benefits and mechanisms of change for therapies such as Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction and Dialectical Behavior Therapy on trauma and depression, which now inform her coaching practice.

Meredith 

We LOVED the practices: the breath work, embodiment, dialogue exercises and communication tools helped us go deeper in our connection in unique and powerful ways, both sexually and non-sexually (but intimate) ways.
If you want to connect more to your body, to your partner, experience greater pleasure and ease and up level your sex life from being ‘mechanical’ to being magical, I would highly recommend working with Michelle!

Ok, Let's Recap!

Here's what you'll get when you enroll in MELT: The art of slow & tantric sex

01

Immediate access to all six modules of MELT, including...

  • Four (4) types of conversation prompts to create deep and instant emotional connection
  • Three (3) tools to drop into your bodies and create energetic alchemy before lovemaking (or whenever you want to!)
  • Step-by-step audio guidance to give each other neo-tantric massage (yoni and lingam massage) so you can both learn to experience sexual pleasure in states of deep relaxation and openness 
  • Comprehensive training to learn to give (and receive) full-body orgasms
  • Guided instructions to practice Primal Sacred Sex together
  • Lesson to learn how to practice the art of Sex Magic, including different versions you can use as a couple or on your own 

02

The Body Confidence Mastery video series, including...

  • The Tonglen Meditation (video #2) to turn body shame into compassion
  • How to turn envy into turn-on (video #6) 
  • Asking yourself, "Who would you be without that thought?" to understand the possibilities on the other side of your self-judgment (video #17)
  •  Plus 27 more!

03

A Gift Card to Yoni Pleasure Palace to spend $50 toward date night essentials, such as:

  • Massage oils
  • Jade yoni eggs
  • Waterproof squirt blankets
  • Water- or oil-based sensual lubricants

04

Q&A Support Inside Every Lesson

  • Ask questions anytime in the comment section of any lesson and receive a response directly from Michelle, usually within 48 hours
  • If you have a question too personal to post inside the course, just email your question to michelle@michelle-martinez.net 

D & G

I always thought tantric sex was mainly about the other partner but what is incredibly liberating is that you can find joy and pleasure, and NO shame in your own sacred soul and body.
If you’re looking for a more holistic and open approach in your overall relationship—I highly recommend and encourage Michelle’s transformative work in Tantric Sex and Sex Magic as a way into a deeper love and truth with your self, your partner, your body, spirit, mind, and soul.

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"Yeah, but..."

Honest Answers to Your Questions, Doubts, and Hesitations

I really want to explore this, but I'm worried that I won't be able to get my partner on board to try it out with me.

I totally get it. My partner supported me doing these sacred sex/ tantra practices on my own but was somewhat resistance when it came to the partnered practices. 

That's why one of the first lessons in MELT is "How to help your partner get on board," where I share some insight around why your person might feel awkward or resistant around the idea of bringing more slowness, intention, and consciousness to your sex life, and how to approach that discussion to help them feel at ease and get their buy-in.   

If you want your partner to be on board BEFORE you purchase, you can get free access to the lesson by clicking here.

 

Is this course for cis-heterosexual couples or will the content apply to LGBTQIA+ relationships as well?

MELT is for partnerships of all kinds!  

I try to be label the audio-guided solo practices if there is anatomy-specific language included (e.g., "Sex Magic with cervix root" vs. "Sex Magic with perineum root") so you can choose the guidance that will resonate most with your embodied experience. 

MELT sounds amazing, but this probably isn't the right time to enroll because I'm single / not having sex with anyone right now.

It's true that you'll need a partner to do most of the practices in MELT.  However, there are some compelling reasons to enroll while you're single:

  1. A lot of the principles and techniques that you'll learn can be applied to the way you have sex with yourself, which will still help you build more sensitivity to the subtle energy in your body and experience deeper, longer, more full-bodied orgasms from self-pleasuring
  2. MELT can help you prepare your body to receive more pleasure from less stimulation during partnered sex when that time does come. 
  3. You get lifetime access to the course with your purchase, so you can always buy now and come back to it later when you've got someone who wants to MELT with you!
  4. You can use the solo sex magic practice (Module 7) to manifest that partner into your life ✨

What exactly is Tantra and how does it influence the practices in the course? I want to make sure this isn't at odds with my existing values and beliefs.

To answer this question, I'm going to unlock a lesson from the first module in MELT for you:

Slow Sex & Tantric Sex Explained

 

Are there Q&A calls included? How can I get my questions answered?

The MELT course does not include live coaching calls, but there is a comment section in every lesson where you can drop your questions at any time. I monitor those very closely and you can expect a response from me within 1-2 business days. 

Do you have a money back guarantee?

I do! But there are a few stipulations to be eligible for a refund:

  1. You will need to demonstrate that you have given the course content a try and it hasn't resulted in the outcomes you expected.  I don't give refunds to people who simply changed their minds, but I will absolutely give you your money back if the practices have not had a meaningful, positive influence in your love life.
  2. You will need to share a bit about your experience inside the course with me via phone call, Zoom call, or email, so that I can make it stronger, more accessible, and more effective for future students.  My aim is make my programs a no-brainer investment because students consistently receive value that far exceeds the dollars invested.
If you have a question or concern that wasn't addressed above, please email it to michelle@michelle-martinez.net and we'll get an answer to you ASAP!

Now's the time

Why invest in learning to have slow & tantric sex NOW, and not later?

I'm not trying to scare you, but if you're having sex the way most people are doing it...
  • trying to forcing orgasm from yourself or your partner through friction and tension
  • only getting turned on by things that feel dirty or naughty, even though it leaves you with a shame hangover after sex
  • stressing about how sexy you look and feeling more undesirable as your body changes over time
... then you're probably going to end up in the situation most couples do: 
a sexless marriage.

And the longer you wait to start doing it differently, the more time you waste having sex that feels predictable, boring, or purposeless....

... when you COULD be having sex that actually strengthens your energetic and emotional bond, surprises you with new, deeper, more expansive experiences of orgasm that you didn't even know you could have, and gives new purpose to your sex life as fuel for your mutual self-realization!

LET'S GET STARTED!

Time to ask yourself...

Do you believe you can have full-body orgasms, enjoy deep intimacy AND primal passion inside a 30+ year marriage, and create your dream life with your sexual energy?

Because if not...

You'll never find out if you actually can.  

Obviously, if all of this seems like nonsense to you, or you think you're the exception to the rule and it will work for everyone else but you...

... you won't try. Why would you? 

Even with the money-back guarantee, it would be a waste of your time and energy to even begin the journey.

But if you DO believe you can, or even a little part of you is curious to find out, then our 6-month guarantee means you've got nothing to lose by enrolling in MELT and discovering how slow and tantric sex practices can elevate your love life forever.

Try it for yourself, risk-free, with our 6-month guarantee

Set yourself up for a lifetime of continual heart-opening, pleasure-expanding intimacy

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