Sacred Slut

For women ready to shed the belief that their bodies and pleasure are shameful, and embody the truth that they are sacred, ecstatic, and powerful beyond measure.

Have you ever been on a date, on the verge of becoming sexually intimate with someone for the first time, when you find yourself caught in a frenzied risk/benefits analysis like this one?


"I want to go for it, but will he think I'm a slut if I don't say no? Should I wait longer?  Or is that caring too much what he thinks?  Will he lose respect for me if I do it? Will he think I'm a tight-ass prude if I don't?

Oh god, what will he think of my body? I hate my belly... will he notice that my boobs are different sizes? Will he think my vulva looks weird, or smells gross?

Can I even trust this person? What if things go sideways?  Will he be chill if I change my mind or need to leave, or will he freak out on me?

The way he's touching me feels so good, and I want to go for it... but will it be worth it?"


If so, you're not alone.  And you know it feels awful ... like you're being set up to judge and doubt yourself no matter what you do.


But what if you could feel...

so valid in your own desire

so tuned in to your own boundaries

so deserving of your own pleasure

so comfortable in your own body 

so trusting in your own judgment

...that you could simply do what genuinely feels good to you without apology or shame?

And to have those other judgmental voices -- the ones you've inherited from high school bullies, religiously raised parents, and misogynistic media -- just fade away?  

YOU CAN!

By embodying the sexual-spiritual power of your Sacred Slut.

Because your Sacred Slut...

  • Feels sexy, sensual, and delicious in her own skin
  • Experiences sex as a practice in opening to energy, and staying connected: to herself, to her body, to her pleasure, and to her partner
  • Prioritizes the sensual pleasures of her body and treats them as a loving gift from the Divine
  • Doesn't fall into the traps and manipulations of Patriarchal Sex Culture, and stays aligned with the TRUTH of who she is
  • Doesn't judge her desires as too much, greedy, or selfish, but honors them as clues guiding her into the relationships and experiences that will help her feel more HERSELF and more ALIVE
  • Trusts in her own sexual-spiritual authority as a daughter of The Goddess
  • Is deeply Sensual, Liberated, Untamed and True ;)

Your sexuality is SACRED, your pleasure is INNOCENT, and your body is cosmic PERFECTION.

Enough with the walks of shame, the guilt hangovers, the constant self-berating over choices in your love life. Sex shouldn't have to feel dirty or wrong to be hot AF.... unless that's your kink ;) 

Why "Slut", though?

Because we all have a slutty side, the part of us that knows how to be unapologetically sexual.

And I believe that the feelings a woman experiences when she taps into that energy are divinely inspired impulses from Goddess herself. 

I mean, look how yummy they are: 

"Be bold! Be flirtatious! Be proud of your body!  Let the most subtle touch, a sexy smell, or fleeting eye contact put you over the edge!

Feel your power and pursue your pleasure!"

And all that morning-after, walk-of-shame self-judgment spiraling?

That's energetic residue from internalized Patriarchal Sex Culture, the widespread narrative that sex is basically the territory of men: 

  • The initiation of sex based on his erection, the definition of sex as penetration by his penis, and conclusion of sex based on his ejaculation. 
  • Catering to men's gaze, their desires, and protecting their sexual shadows.
  • Masculinizing God so that our religions uphold this narrative and convince women they have no sexual or spiritual authority.

But we have the power to change that narrative...

We're unraveling Patriarchal Sex Culture from the inside out.

Together, we're embodying a reality in which everyone speaks the language of feminine pleasure, our diverse bodies are adored, and the sexual-spiritual authority of the goddess is once again upheld with fierce reverence.

About Your Coach

Hi,

I'm Michelle Martinez, MPH

I believe that sexual wounds, insecurities, and baggage are a public health issue, a root cause of the suffering and disconnection we experience as humans today.

And I believe that deep, connected, full-of-love sex can actually support the spiritual evolution and enlightenment of humanity. So that's what I'm here to serve.

My coaching methods have evolved from three key influences:

Mindfulness

I have over 10 years' experience working in psychology research labs, exploring the benefits and mechanisms of change for therapies such as Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction and Dialectical Behavior Therapy on trauma and depression, which now inform my coaching practice. 

Trauma Awareness

With a PTSD research team in Seattle, I co-authored 16 publications on mindfulness- and meditation-based therapies for PTSD, appearing in the American Journal of MedicineMedical Care, the Journal of Clinical Psychology, the Journal of Alternative and Complementary Medicine, and the Journal of Traumatic Stress.

I also co-authored a chapter on Post-traumatic Stress Disorder in the 4th Edition of Integrative Medicine.

Tantra

I completed a 600-hour training in the Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach to coaching, with specialized certification in Female Sexuality and Tantric Sex from the Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality.  

Although I am not a tantra expert or guru, many of my coaching tools draw from concepts and practices learned in my studies of tantra and neo-tantra. 

The Sacred Slut Initiation

You will spend the first 12 weeks of Sacred Slut in a deep dive Initiation to become familiar with 6 key elements of sacred sexuality, with two weeks to explore each one.

MODULE 1

AUTHORITY

The Divine Feminine. Goddess. Shakti. Life Force.

There are so many names for this Power, and yet she has been missing from western religious teachings for far too long.

In this module we remember Her, within us and around us.

MODULE 2

SAFETY

Self-trust and safety enable a sacred slut to fully surrender herself to the sexual experience and allow pleasure to move through her in ways that just aren't possible from a state of embodied "shut down."

Learn how to trust your body's yes, no, and maybe, and honor that knowing without need for explanation or apology.

MODULE 3

IMAGINATION

Re-imagine your sexuality and spirituality as not merely able to coexist within you, but mutually reinforcing, so you can embrace your full sexual expression as service to the Highest Good!

MODULE 4 

DESIRE

It is a myth that women do not desire sex as much as men. What we desire is just different than what we've been presented with, the options we've been given.

Here we explore what we actually desire from sex, and how deeply valid those desires are. 

MODULE 5

PLEASURE

Release the belief that your sexual pleasure is sinful, dirty, or will make you lose the respect of others, so you can experience orgasmic surrender as a gateway to eternity and ecstasy (as it was intended!)

MODULE 6

BEAUTY

In defiance of society's efforts, beauty is truly diverse and abundant, and refuses to be defined and measured.

In this module, you will learn about self-lust and how to see beauty in your own gorgeous, changing, evolving form so you can enjoy your body and beauty, first and foremost, for YOURSELF.

Why did you join Sacred Slut?

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I want to be so connected with myself that shame and guilt will disappear

"I want to learn to be more gentle, sensual, delicate, and slow. I want to be free of judgment when it comes to pleasure and sex. I want to connect with my womb, sexual energy, creativity, intuition, secret genius.


I want to allow myself to fully and unapologetically express my sexual needs without judging them. I want to heal sexual blockages in my body, mind, and spirit caused by previous unhealthy relationships. I want to be so connected with myself that shame and guilt will disappear."

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Ready to start healing my wounds around my body and sexuality

" After years of depression and anxiety, navigating career and motherhood, marriage, and more, I am finally embarking on the deep work to connect with my divine, sacred self and am ready to start healing my biggest wounds around my body and my sexuality. I am so excited to be in this space!"

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Want to feel confident and comfortable in my body again

"I was in a long term toxic relationship that really took a toll on my self-confidence and body image. I'm working on healing and want to feel confident and comfortable in my body again. I'm super excited to be on this journey!"

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I'm looking to change this belief in my inner core

"Looking to awaken and embrace my inner sensuality, combined with spirituality. I've always been taught you could not be spiritual and sexual at the same time, since sex is sinful (outside of marriage) and I'm looking to change this belief in my inner core."

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I want to set an example for my daughters

"After doing 1-1 coaching with Michelle, my relationship with my body changed dramatically. Her tools made such a difference in how I related to myself and others, so I was really excited to dive in more deeply. I want to make these embodiment rituals habit, to deepen my connection with my inner Feminine Goddess wisdom, and set an example for my daughters."

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I can feel there's stuff keeping me from really letting loose

"I've done tons of trauma healing and tantra work, and yet I STILL struggle to really allow myself to feel turn on with my husband. We've got two young kids and have been together for about 13 years, but I can feel that there's stuff keeping me from really letting loose. Here for that!"

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Deep dive into me, my needs, my desires, and my sexuality

"I just love Michelle's work and messaging so I treated myself to this programme so I can deep dive into me, my needs, my desires, and my sexuality in a safe and supported place.  I cannot wait to get started and see where her gorgeous work takes me"

4 Tools of Transformation

The first 12 weeks of Sacred Slut are focused on initiating you into your own flavor of Sacred Sexuality, with four essential Tools of Transformation. Here's why each of them matters and how they work together to set you up for success:

9 Private Coaching Sessions

To receive personalized support in an energetically safe space to explore what's coming up for you as you progress through the Initiation. This work goes deep and this is your opportunity to be held and witnessed as you confront and excavate the energetic muck that is not in alignment with who you truly are.

Video Lessons

This is where you receive the cultural-historical context for what got us into a goddess-less, sexist, body-shaming, sex-negative space to begin with.  These lessons call out the narratives of Patriarchal Sex Culture as the myths they are, remind us that this is not how things have always been, and inspire new personal and cultural possibilities

Reflection Questions

To explore how the material applies to YOU and YOUR life, and examine the limiting beliefs you may have around what's realistic or possible for you in your love life

Embodiment Rituals

To intentionally PRACTICE feeling what you want to feel, inviting and experiencing the energy of your Sacred Slut so you can embody her more readily

Faq

I'm not sexually active with anyone right now -- could I still benefit from this program?

ABSOLUTELY!  In fact, you stand to benefit in very exciting ways by doing this work before selecting your next intimate partner(s).  I can tell you more about how amazing it is to be a single Sacred Slut during our Connection Call (you'll schedule that call when you apply) 

When are the group coaching calls?

Group coaching calls are held the first 3 Wednesdays of each month (I take the fourth week off) from 5:00-6:00pm PST.  I may be adding more call times as needed for clients in other time zones.

will coaching calls be recorded and saved anywhere, in case I miss them?

Yes! You will. be able to find recordings of all the coaching calls inside one of the clients-only areas of the BodyWise app

How long will I have access to coaching calls?

As long as you want to!  That's what I love about this program, which I don't see a lot of other group coaching programs doing -- the coaching calls don't end after the 12-week course is completed. That's just the beginning to get you oriented to the philosophy and practice of this work. 

From there, you can remain a Sacred Slut client and continue to explore and adapt these sacred sexuality tools -- with weekly support from me -- as long as your heart and pussy desire for $99/month. 

The ongoing monthly payment serves two purposes: It generates revenue for me to keep growing and expanding the services available to you as a client, AND it serves your own motivation to stay engaged and invested in our work together.

Is there a Facebook group?

There is NOT a Facebook group for this program.  I want to encourage clients to connect with one another live on the calls, spend less time on social media, and more time engaging with their own wisdom and bodies. And on a personal level, I am trying to spend less time on Facebook ;)

Will this show up on my credit card as "Sacred Slut," or....?

I understand the concern ;)  But not -- it will simply read "SS coaching" or "BodyWise Coaching"

Do you offer a program like this for men who are interested in sacred sexuality??

There is one in the works!! I plan to launch this in 2022 but do not have a precise launch date yet.

If you know someone -- or ARE someone -- interested in my sacred sexuality program for men, you can get on the waitlist by signing up below:

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The BodyWise App

The BodyWise App is the central space where all your Sacred Slut videos, audio guides, practice tracking, and coaching call links can be found.  


Here are a few of the ways using an app, rather than a traditional web-based online course, will support your progress in this program:

Mobile Access to Content

With the BodyWise app, you can access Sacred Slut videos, audio practices, and worksheets from your mobile phone or tablet anytime, anywhere.  If you prefer using your desktop computer, that's still an option!

Download Your Lessons

Going somewhere without wifi? No problem! You can download any lesson to be accessible offline.

Track Your Practices

Nothing motivates quite like seeing a streak of your own successes!  Log your daily embodiment rituals with the app tracking feature, so you can inspire yourself and give yourself credit each time you invest time and attention on strengthening your sexual vitality. 

Client Results

My coaching clients come from all over the world. The specific desires and struggles that inspire them to work with me are unique, but have one thing in common: they yearn for integration between their spiritual selves and their sexual selves. They are ready and willing to do the deep self-exploration necessary to create sex lives that satisfy their bodies, hearts, and souls. And that is the work we do together.

Magda Y.

Canada

" Michelle focused mainly on my desires, and got me to recreate these experiences on a somatic level in my own body. It was so incredible to understand that these experiences are always within me and that I can recreate them at any time."

Jessa 

United States

"Michelle's beautiful voice keeps me focused and feeling safe as I explore parts of myself that may feel triggering. Without pushing, she guides me through my triggers and I leave my sessions feeling relaxed and integrated... I know these sessions will allow me to learn to love my body more and more!"

Tanya M.

Australia

"I learned that it. is possible to experience so much pleasure, safety, and trust in the body I am in now.

I found it a great experience, particularly after taking a break to honor my winter. Flexibility to return when I was more ready was a powerful experience of honoring where my body was really at and allowing a lot more expansion when the time was right.

I also noticed that this was mirrored in a recent sexual experience where I felt more able to tune into my own body and communicate what I needed with my partner.

Thank you so much, Michelle! I am so grateful for the work we did together and the ripple effects it is still having in my life."

Stacy H.

United States

"One of my biggest takeaways will be how my vastly improved relationship with my body has in turn vastly improved my relationship with the divine. 


I find that I'm no longer so focused on my appearance and therefore have capacity for far deeper experiences."

Claire G.

Greece

"The home play sessions that Michelle sent me each week were truly magical and enabled me to reconnect to my inner radiance and cultivate an inner ecology of self love and compassion.


Thank you, Michelle! You have been the catalyst for so much beautiful transformation in my world."

Chelsea A.

United States

"Michelle's body and heart wisdom and masterful guidance have allowed me to expand my frame of reference around love, cultivate a deeper connection to my partner, and begin to break free from shame.

The Investment

There is a one-time payment of $2,222 to get started, followed by monthly payments of $99 to maintain program access

sacred sluts RECEIVE:

  • The 6-module Initiation to embody the Sacred Slut in 6 key areas: Authority, Safety, Imagination, Desire, Pleasure, and Beauty 
  • Private coaching sessions 3x per month during your 12-week Initiation (9 total)
  • Weekly Q&A group calls 3x per month
  • Monthly workshops on special hot topics
  • Lifetime access to BodyWise app Foundations Membership

Self-Seduction Gift Set

Private clients also receive* a special Self-Seduction gift set with exquisite, high-quality products from We The Goddess, including: 

  • LA LUNA | Black obsidian pleasure wand 
  • YONI EGG | medium-sized GIA-certified nephrite jade egg
  • HEARTGASM | breast massage oil with 24k gold 

RETAIL VALUE: $363 USD

*Yours upon completion of the 12-Week Initiation!

sacred slut clients RECEIVE:

  • Sacred Slut 12-week Initiation program to begin unraveling Patriarchal Sex Culture in 6 key areas: Authority, Safety, Imagination, Desire, Pleasure, and Beauty 
  • Private coaching sessions 3x per month during your 12-week Initiation (9 total)
  • Weekly Q&A group calls 3x per month
  • Monthly workshops on special hot topics
  • Lifetime access to BodyWise app Foundations Membership

Self-Seduction Gift Set

Sacred Slut clients also receive* a special Self-Seduction gift set with exquisite, high-quality products from We The Goddess, including: 

  • LA LUNA | Black obsidian pleasure wand 
  • YONI EGG | medium-sized GIA-certified nephrite jade egg
  • HEARTGASM | breast massage oil with 24k gold 

RETAIL VALUE: $363 USD

*Yours upon completion of the 12-Week Initiation!

SPECIAL BONUS: Lifetime Access to the BodyWise App Foundations Membership

As a Sacred Slut client, you'll also receive a lifetime subscription to the BodyWise app Foundations Membership (normally $200/year), which gives you access to these incredible courses and programs: 

BodyWise app cover image for Body Confidence Mastery course

It can feel near impossible to want to be sexual (let alone a sacred slut)  when we are feeling self-conscious about our bodies. 

That's why you'll be receiving this course, packed with 30 daily videos outlining practical mindset and embodiment tools you can use to feel more confident IN and ABOUT your unique and glorious body.

BodyWise app cover image for Everyday Embodiment course

This course was made for the hyper-intellectualized woman who struggles to do embodiment practices consistently, even though she wants to be connected to her body soooo badly.

This course provides a research-tested process for making embodiment practices into a regular habit in an easy, pleasurable, and sustainable way!

BodyWise app cover image for Practice Library

You will always have a new embodiment practice to explore and deepen your sexual-spiritual mastery with this ever-growing collection of step-by-step audio guides and tutorial videos!

Practices include:

  • Neo-Tantric Massage
  • Sexy, Safe, & Seen
  • Full-Body Orgasm
  • ....and 20+ more!

Ready for your Sacred Slut to take the lead?

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