Sacred Slut

For women ready to shed the belief that their bodies and pleasure are shameful, and embody the truth that they are sacred, ecstatic, and powerful beyond measure.

Doors Open for Next Round August 2022

What if you could feel...

so valid in your own desire

so tuned in to your own boundaries

so deserving of your own pleasure

so comfortable in your own body 

so trusting in your own judgment

...that you could just do what genuinely feels good to you without apology or shame?

And to have those judgmental voices -- the ones you've inherited from high school bullies, religious leaders, and misogynistic media -- just fade away?  

YOU CAN!

By embodying the sexual-spiritual power of your Sacred Slut.

Because your Sacred Slut...

  • Feels sexy, sensual, and delicious in her own skin
  • Experiences intimacy as a practice in opening deeply to sexual energy, and staying connected: to herself, to her body, to her pleasure, and to her partner
  • Prioritizes the sensual pleasures of her body and treats them as a loving gift from the Divine
  • Doesn't fall into the traps and manipulations of Patriarchal Sex Culture, and stays aligned with the TRUTH of who she is
  • Doesn't judge her desires as too much, greedy, or selfish, but honors them as clues guiding her into the relationships and experiences that will help her feel more HERSELF and more ALIVE
  • Trusts in her own sexual-spiritual authority as a daughter of The Goddess
  • Is deeply Sensual, Liberated, Untamed and True ;)

Your sexuality is SACRED, your pleasure is INNOCENT, and your body is cosmic PERFECTION.

Enough with the walks of shame, the guilt hangovers, the constant self-berating over choices in your love life. Sex shouldn't have to feel dirty or wrong to be hot AF.... unless that's your kink ;) 

Why "Slut", though?

Because we all have a slutty side, the part of us that knows how to be unapologetically sexual.

And I believe that the feelings a woman experiences when she taps into that energy are divinely inspired impulses from Goddess herself. 

I mean, look how yummy they are: 

"Be bold! Be flirtatious! Be proud of your body!  Let the most subtle touch, a sexy smell, or fleeting eye contact put you over the edge!

Feel your power and pursue your pleasure!"

And all that morning-after, walk-of-shame self-judgment spiraling?

That's energetic residue from internalized Patriarchal Sex Culture, the widespread narrative that sex is basically the territory of men: 

  • The initiation of sex based on his erection, the definition of sex as penetration by his penis, and conclusion of sex based on his ejaculation. 
  • Catering to men's gaze, their desires, and protecting their sexual shadows.
  • Masculinizing God so that our religions uphold this narrative and convince women they have no sexual or spiritual authority.

But we have the power to change that narrative...

Unravel Patriarchy from the inside out.

Together, we're embodying a reality in which everyone speaks the language of feminine pleasure, our diverse bodies are adored, and the sexual-spiritual authority of the goddess is once again upheld with fierce reverence.

About Your Coach

Hi,

I'm Michelle Martinez, MPH

I believe that sexual wounds, insecurities, and trauma are a public health issue, a root cause of the suffering and disconnection we experience as humans today.

And I believe that deep, connected, full-of-love sex can actually support the spiritual evolution and enlightenment of humanity. So that's what I'm here to serve.

My coaching methods have evolved from three key influences:

Mindfulness

I have over 10 years' experience working in psychology research labs, exploring the benefits and mechanisms of change for therapies such as Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction and Dialectical Behavior Therapy on trauma and depression, which now inform my coaching practice. 

Trauma Awareness

With a PTSD research team in Seattle, I co-authored 16 publications on mindfulness- and meditation-based therapies for PTSD, appearing in the American Journal of MedicineMedical Care, the Journal of Clinical Psychologythe Journal of Alternative and Complementary Medicineand the Journal of Traumatic Stress. 

I also co-authored a chapter on Post-traumatic Stress Disorder in the 4th Edition of Integrative Medicine.

Tantra

I completed a 600-hour training in the Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach to coaching, with specialized certification in Female Sexuality and Tantric Sex from the Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality.  

Although I am not a tantra expert or guru, many of my coaching tools draw from concepts and practices learned in my studies of tantra and neo-tantra. 

Why did you join Sacred Slut?

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Ready to start healing my wounds around my body and sexuality

" After years of depression and anxiety, navigating career and motherhood, marriage, and more, I am finally embarking on the deep work to connect with my divine, sacred self and am ready to start healing my biggest wounds around my body and my sexuality. I am so excited to be in this space!"

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Want to feel confident and comfortable in my body again

"I was in a long term toxic relationship that really took a toll on my self-confidence and body image. I'm working on healing and want to feel confident and comfortable in my body again. I'm super excited to be on this journey!"

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I'm looking to change this belief in my inner core

"Looking to awaken and embrace my inner sensuality, combined with spirituality. I've always been taught you could not be spiritual and sexual at the same time, since sex is sinful (outside of marriage) and I'm looking to change this belief in my inner core."

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I want to set an example for my daughters

"After doing 1-1 coaching with Michelle, my relationship with my body changed dramatically. Her tools made such a difference in how I related to myself and others, so I was really excited to dive in more deeply. I want to make these embodiment rituals habit, to deepen my connection with my inner Feminine Goddess wisdom, and set an example for my daughters."

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I can feel there's stuff keeping me from really letting loose

"I've done tons of trauma healing and tantra work, and yet I STILL struggle to really allow myself to feel turn on with my husband. We've got two young kids and have been together for about 13 years, but I can feel that there's stuff keeping me from really letting loose. Here for that!"

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Deep dive into me, my needs, my desires, and my sexuality

"I just love Michelle's work and messaging so I treated myself to this programme so I can deep dive into me, my needs, my desires, and my sexuality in a safe and supported place.  I cannot wait to get started and see where her gorgeous work takes me"

The Sacred Slut Initiation

Sacred Slut is a 12-week, deep-dive Initiation into the sacredness of your sexuality that will shift 6 key elements of your erotic life:

MODULE 1

AUTHORITY

The Divine Feminine. Goddess. Shakti. Life Force.

There are so many names for this Power, and yet she has been missing from western religious teachings for far too long.

In this module we remember Her, within us and around us.

MODULE 2

SAFETY

Self-trust and safety enable a sacred slut to fully surrender herself to the sexual experience and allow pleasure to move through her in ways that just aren't possible from a state of embodied "shut down."

Learn how to trust your body's yes, no, and maybe, and honor that knowing without need for explanation or apology.

MODULE 3

IMAGINATION

Re-imagine your sexuality and spirituality as not merely able to coexist within you, but mutually reinforcing, so you can embrace your full sexual expression as service to the Highest Good!

MODULE 4 

DESIRE

It is a myth that women do not desire sex as much as men. What we desire is just different than what we've been presented with, the options we've been given.

Here we explore what we actually desire from sex, and how deeply valid those desires are. 

MODULE 5

PLEASURE

Release the belief that your sexual pleasure is sinful, dirty, or will make you lose the respect of others, so you can experience orgasmic surrender as a gateway to eternity and ecstasy (as it was intended!)

MODULE 6

BEAUTY

In defiance of society's efforts, beauty is truly diverse and abundant, and refuses to be defined and measured.

In this module, you will learn about self-lust and how to see beauty in your own gorgeous, changing, evolving form so you can enjoy your body and beauty, first and foremost, for YOURSELF.

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I want to be so connected with myself that shame and guilt will disappear

"I want to learn to be more gentle, sensual, delicate, and slow. I want to be free of judgment when it comes to pleasure and sex. I want to connect with my womb, sexual energy, creativity, intuition, secret genius.


I want to allow myself to fully and unapologetically express my sexual needs without judging them. I want to heal sexual blockages in my body, mind, and spirit caused by previous unhealthy relationships. I want to be so connected with myself that shame and guilt will disappear."


- Student's response to "Why did you join Sacred Slut?"

context | customization | conscious embodiment

Tools of Transformation

Every module of Sacred Slut combines 3 powerful tools to support your transformation into the most sexually free and authentic version of yourself. Here's why each of them matters and how they work together to set you up for success:

Video Lessons

These lessons provide historical-social context for the narratives of Patriarchal Sex Culture, call them out as the myths they are, remind us that this is not how things have always been, and remind us that we have the power to create new personal and cultural possibilities

Reflection Questions

To explore how the material applies to YOU and YOUR life, and examine the limiting beliefs you may have around what's realistic or possible for you in your love life

Embodiment Rituals

To intentionally PRACTICE feeling what you want to feel, inviting and experiencing the energy of your Sacred Slut so you can embody her more readily

More Client Results

These results are from my private coaching clients, who come from all over the world.  The practices I have given them to achieve these results are the same ones you will receive in Sacred Slut.

The specific desires and struggles that brought them to this work are unique, but they have one thing in common: they yearn for integration between their spiritual selves and their sexual selves. They were ready and willing to do the deep self-exploration necessary to create sex lives that satisfy their bodies, hearts, and souls. And that is the work we do together in Sacred Slut.

Magda Y.

Canada

" Michelle focused mainly on my desires, and got me to recreate these experiences on a somatic level in my own body. It was so incredible to understand that these experiences are always within me and that I can recreate them at any time."

Jessa 

United States

"Michelle's beautiful voice keeps me focused and feeling safe as I explore parts of myself that may feel triggering. Without pushing, she guides me through my triggers and I leave my sessions feeling relaxed and integrated... I know these sessions will allow me to learn to love my body more and more!"

Tanya M.

Australia

"I learned that it. is possible to experience so much pleasure, safety, and trust in the body I am in now.

I found it a great experience, particularly after taking a break to honor my winter. Flexibility to return when I was more ready was a powerful experience of honoring where my body was really at and allowing a lot more expansion when the time was right.

I also noticed that this was mirrored in a recent sexual experience where I felt more able to tune into my own body and communicate what I needed with my partner.

Thank you so much, Michelle! I am so grateful for the work we did together and the ripple effects it is still having in my life."

Stacy H.

United States

"One of my biggest takeaways will be how my vastly improved relationship with my body has in turn vastly improved my relationship with the divine. 


I find that I'm no longer so focused on my appearance and therefore have capacity for far deeper experiences."

Claire G.

Greece

"The home play sessions that Michelle sent me each week were truly magical and enabled me to reconnect to my inner radiance and cultivate an inner ecology of self love and compassion.


Thank you, Michelle! You have been the catalyst for so much beautiful transformation in my world."

Chelsea A.

United States

"Michelle's body and heart wisdom and masterful guidance have allowed me to expand my frame of reference around love, cultivate a deeper connection to my partner, and begin to break free from shame.

Faq

I'm not sexually active with anyone right now -- could I still benefit from this program?

ABSOLUTELY!  In fact, you stand to benefit in very exciting ways by doing this work before selecting your next intimate partner(s).  I can tell you more about how amazing it is to be a single Sacred Slut during our Connection Call (you'll schedule that call when you apply) 

Is there a Facebook group?

There is NOT a Facebook group for this program.  I want to encourage clients to spend less time on social media, and more time engaging with their own wisdom and bodies. 

And on a personal level, I am trying to spend less time on Facebook ;)

Will this show up on my credit card as "Sacred Slut," or....?

I understand the concern ;)  But not -- it will simply read "SS coaching" or "BodyWise Coaching"

Do you offer a program like this for men who are interested in sacred sexuality??

There is one in the works!! I plan to launch this in 2022 but do not have a precise launch date yet.

If you know someone -- or ARE someone -- interested in my sacred sexuality program for men, you can get on the waitlist by signing up below:

Where do I go if I have a question or need support?

There is a form inside the Sacred Slut program that you can use to submit questions to Michelle at any time.  Depending on the nature of the question, she will provide a direct response to you, or record a Q&A video for other participants to learn from. (Your name will never be used in those videos without your consent.)

The BodyWise App

The BodyWise App is the central space where all your Sacred Slut videos, audio guides, practice tracking, and coaching call links can be found.  


Here are a few of the ways using an app, rather than a traditional web-based online course, will support your progress in this program:

MOBILE ACCESS

With the BodyWise app, you can access Sacred Slut videos, audio practices, and worksheets from your mobile phone or tablet anytime, anywhere.  

DOWNLOAD YOUR LESSONS

Going somewhere without wifi? No problem!

You can download any lesson to be accessible offline so you can stay on track even in those pesky no-service zones.

TRACKING

Log your embodiment rituals and mindset with the app tracking feature to give yourself credit each time you do it, feel successful, and reinforce your commitment to your own sexual vitality! 

the investment

Pay in Full

$

497

One payment for lifetime access to Sacred Slut in your BodyWise app account


3-Month  Plan

$

166

Make 3 monthly payments of $166 and your payments will be complete even before you finish the course!


6-Month Plan

$

83

Enroll in Sacred Slut for less than $100 a month! 


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