You don't have to settle for a sexless marriage!

Be the man she LOVES to LUST

Learn to embody the Six Gifts of Magnetic Masculinity so your wife naturally initiates intimacy more often and becomes more loving, playful, and sexually passionate with you!

Ever feel Like your wife is annoyed by sex and there must be something wrong with YOU?

Trust me, it's not just you.

I shared out a survey to men on my YouTube channel and email list asking them if they ever experienced the following problems.

(The percentage shown next to each statement indicates the amount of men who DO experience that problem, or DO feel that way.)

Take a look at the results so far:

Clearly... if you have experienced any of these problems... you are DEFINITELY not alone in that.

Here are a few other struggles survey respondents shared -- can you relate to any of these?

Sex is not a priority for her - she does not think about, initiate or consider sex unless I bring it up or pursue her.

I feel when she gives into my advances, she lets me do it out of duty. This builds resentment in her. I try to pick up on clues, if I do I will halt sexual advances and opt for snuggling, or non sexual massage. Anything to feel connected.

I'm ready to give up, but I really just want this to work.

Obviously, this is not ideal.

Here's what I want for you

1.
Your wife initiates sex with YOU multiple times a week

And when she does, you feel genuinely desired by her, wanted by her, appreciated, and massively turned on by it

2.
You're having the best sex of your lives together

In bed, she's more present, open, and uninhibited than ever before, and the rest of the day there's a chemistry and connection lingering between you that is PALPABLE

3.
Your marriage makes you feel like a swoon-worthy stud

Because you feel more adored and desired by your wife, you feel full of confidence and purpose, which just makes you even more irresistible to her!

And here's how I'll help you get it

SWOON

The Masculine Magnetism course

In SWOON, my brand new course for men, you'll learn how to shift the sexual dynamics in your relationship so SHE feels sexually magnetized to YOU...

... so you can spend more of your time and energy actually enjoying phenomenal sex together (instead of trying to figure out how to NOT feel like a burden every time you initiate sexual intimacy)

The ultimate seduction

is your own self-realization

Each module of SWOON helps you unlock a gift of magnetic masculinity that make a woman's heart and pussy flutter 💦   

... while simultaneously helping you become a more skilled observer, a more passionate fighter, a more effective leader, a most trustworthy partner, and more secure in your sexuality. 

How does SWOON do this? 

Here's the breakdown 👇

Before you dive into the six skills of magnetic men, you'll set yourself up for success by learning to navigate the course so that it is effective for YOU and you focus on the themes that excite you the most.
I broke up with someone once because he couldn't tell me what I offered to the relationship. I was feeling constantly pressured to grow and change, to be "better," and I needed to know why the heck he was even with me, if I had so few redeeming qualities.
He couldn't give me a single example of something he learned from me, or how I inspired him to be a better person.
In short... I didn't feel SEEN by him. I don't want you to lose someone by making this mistake too.
In this module, you'll discover:
  • What she means when she says "I don't feel seen by you," and what changes when she finally does feel it
  • How to weave moments of "seeing her" into the day without needing a go-to list of compliments 
  • How mastering this skill elevates every other relationship in your life
Women yearn to surrender emotionally and sexually to their men, to melt in their arms, to let go of control and be taken to exquisite states of mind-body ecstasy during sex.  
But we also enjoy being productive, go-getter badasses in our daily lives, and that hyper-performance energy -- when there's no check on it -- can completely snuff out our desire for sex.
So.... this module is all about learning to lovingly "check" a woman's addiction to Getting Things Done / Taking Care of Things so she can more easily access the sensual, present, feminine side of herself...
...the part that says "to hell with the dishes - I want you and your cock NOW."
By the end of this module, you'll be able to:
  • Use your own desires to create an inspiring direction for your relationship 
  • Skillfully "save her" from her own martyrdom and become her HERO 🙌
  • Trust your intuition and provide stronger EMOTIONAL leadership in your marriage (this one reeeaaally separates the men from the boys)
  • Re-energize your sex life by focusing LESS on her pleasure and more on yours (in a way she'll love!)
There are few things that turn women off more than a man with no purpose or passion in his life.
We want to see our men in their POWER.
Energized. Strong. Fighting for something that truly matters.
And we want to know that our safety is something you're willing and able to fight for.
By the end of this module you'll know:
  • What really magnetizes women of intellectual and spiritual substance to successful, powerful men (it's actually not the extravagant lifestyle)
  • Why sacrificing your dreams to create more stability for your marriage or family can backfire in the bedroom 
  • How to use your sexual energy to clarify what Big Picture Purpose makes you feel most alive, emboldened, and motivated  
Trust is not only broken by someone's infidelity.  The need for trust -- to know that you will do what you say you'll do -- permeates so much more than the agreements of monogamy. 
But a lot of men have no idea that the little ways they go back on their word, or fail to follow through on something they mentioned offhand but never actually committed to, send a message to their wives or girlfriends:
"If you want something done, you've got to do it yourself."
This is not sexy.
She wants to hear you say "I've got this," and know in her bones that you mean it.
THAT is sexy. THAT makes her want to open her heart and body to you.
"Inspiring Her Trust" will help you get there by showing you...
  • Why some women are able to have casual sex with people they barely know, and then resist sex with men they've been with for many years and "should" trust more 
  • The sneaky ways that trust erodes in long-term relationships without either of you realizing what's happening
  • How to be more intentional about what you agree to do (no matter how seemingly trivial), so you KNOW you can follow-through on it every time (and so does she)
Erotic energy is, essentially, life force energy. 
The reason so many people get intoxicated by sexual attraction and connection is because it helps us feel ALIVE!
And, no surprise...
...the more embodied and alive someone is -- the more they are living life to the fullest, taking risks, growing, and not letting fear hold them back -- the greater their sex appeal 🔥 
Which is why "Living at Your Edge" is all about pushing yourself out of your emotional and sexual comfort zones and discovering the new levels of pleasure, connection, and freedom that await you on the other side!
In this module, you'll discover:
  • How subconscious "Upper Limits" sabotage us when things are "too good" for "too long"  
  • How to identify your "Emotional Edge" and your "Sexual Pleasure Edge" and consciously expand your capacity to hold more intimacy, pleasure, and love for longer periods of time   
If you believe that the quantity and quality of the sex you have is up to your wife or girlfriend...
If you think having sex with a disconnected, distracted partner is better than not having sex at all...
If you feel like this essential part of you -- your sexuality -- can only be fed and validated by sex with your woman...
This module is going to give you a whole new lease on life.
By the end of this module, you'll be able to:
  • Create more delicious sexual tension in your relationship with a technique called "Simmering"
  • Stop taking her sexual "rejection" personally, and masterfully transform it into deeper respect, trust, and attraction toward you
  • Inspire her to level up HER sexual game by raising the standards for your sex life together. No 👏 more 👏settling 👏 for 👏 crumbs 👏!  
  • Get her to tell you what's REALLY keeping her sexual energy from flowing freely with you so you can address the root cause together
  • Stop treating sex like something that can (or has to) be "earned" through gifts and chores
  • Release your dependency on her to be the source of all your nourishing, expansive, and spiritually elevating sexual experiences and learn to give them to yourself 

money back

100%

6-month guarantee

100% 6-month Money Back Guarantee 

Invest With Confidence...It's Risk Free!

You'll have a full SIX MONTHS to go through the content of the course. If you complete the course and your love life has not significantly improved, you can still get a full refund on your investment. 

I took this course because I wanted to feel more desired by my wife. To do that, I had to change my way of thinking about myself.


I think the most valuable thing about this course, for me, is that it's caused me to examine the way I've been approaching sex with my wife. I've been guilty of "begging for scraps," as Michelle describes it; I would often ask my wife when we could do it, then get noticeably frustrated if she turned me down for whatever reason, which, I realize, is objectively un-sexy.


But Michelle's course has reminded me that there are subtle ways to turn my wife on, by building up my own sense of self worth, by building connection with her, and by showing up for her in unexpected ways, both practically and sexually.

B. Larson // SWOON student

Being someone who has struggled to surrender on my own, I found the concept of my partner leading me into surrender deeply appealing and a major turn on. It made me excited for myself and also attracted to the dominant side of my partner.


My partner has started to inspire me to trust, firstly, in him and secondly, in myself and my own body. This has allowed me to push past allowing myself to have one clitoral orgasm and then mentally drawing a boundary, to opening myself up to experience wave after wave of orgasm. The enjoyment and bliss of which lasts for days after the event. 

Claire O // SWOON reviewer

Meet your teacher

Michelle Martinez, MPH

  • Certified Female Sexuality and Tantric Sex Coach. Michelle is trained in the Vital & Integrated Tantric approach to sex, love, & relationship coaching through the Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality, where she also received specialized training in Female Sexuality and Tantric Sex for couples.
  • Trauma Researcher. With a PTSD research team in Seattle, Michelle has co-authored 16 publications appearing in the American Journal of MedicineMedical Care, the Journal of Clinical Psychology, the Journal of Alternative and Complementary Medicine, and the Journal of Traumatic Stress, as well as a chapter on Post-traumatic Stress Disorder in the 4th Edition of Integrative Medicine
  • Mindfulness Expert. Michelle spent a decade of her career in psychology research labs, exploring the benefits and mechanisms of change for therapies such as Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction and Dialectical Behavior Therapy on trauma and depression, which now inform her coaching practice.
I believe that deeply embodied, connected, full-of-love sexual intimacy can actually support the spiritual evolution and enlightenment of humanity. So that's what I'm here to serve.

BONUS GIFT #1


Receive a free digital copy of my new book, Erotic Empowerment !

With a simple 3-step process, this book will teach you how to leverage your sexual insecurities into erotic empowerment, so that the love, pleasure and turn-on you feel in your relationship is reinforced by your partner's affection... not dependent on it.

BONUS GIFT #2


"Long Term Sexual Thriving" Subliminal Audios

Use the power of subliminal messaging to overwrite subconscious negative beliefs about men, women, and sexuality (that you probably absorbed from other people) with healthier, more empowering beliefs that support lasting, loving sexual connection.

Join SWOON: The Masculine Magnetism Course

Only $497 $297 when you join today (save $200!)

What you'll get when you enroll:

SWOON

core modules and tools

bonuses

to support your lasting success

Digital Copy of Erotic Empowerment: Inner Mastery for High Chemistry Relationships
Sexual Thriving Subliminal Message Audios to rewrite subconscious beliefs about men, women, sex, and bodies

Still not sure?

Frequently Asked Questions

Is this course for men only, or can women join?

Women absolutely can join!

Whether you want to arouse more love and lust in your female partner, or you are seeking to understand your own erotic nature more deeply (or both) this course will offer you valuable insights that can take your emotional and sexual intimacy to places you didn't even know were available to you.

What's the investment? Are there payment plans?

You can get immediate access to this course with a one-time investment is $497, or you can break your payments into three monthly installments of $166, or six monthly installments of $83.

Will there be any live calls included in the course?

SWOON is a self-paced course and does not include any live coaching calls. However, if you ever have questions or feel stuck, you can submit your question in the comment section of any of the lessons, or email me directly at michelle@michelle-martinez.net.  

This way, you don't have to wait for a call to get your questions answered or get the support you're looking for.

 

What if it doesn't work for me? Will there be a refund?

YES. My programs always offer a money back guarantee because I don't believe you should pay for something that does not deliver on the promise it made.  

The only caveat is that you must actually demonstrate that you've completed the course (watched the video lessons and completed the assignments) before you are eligible for a refund.  I will be able to see whether you've completed the video lessons, and you can show that you've completed the assignments by showing me your completed assignments checklist.

 

I don't think this will help me because the problems in my sex life are mostly my partner's fault / her issues.

It is entirely possible that your sex life is suffering because of stuff happening on your partner's end -- their own sexual blocks, insecurities, defensiveness, etc.  

But your partner is still responding and reacting to your energy, on some level... so you won't know if you can get a sexier, more secure and self-assured version of them, until you've brought a sexy, secure, and self-assured version of YOU to the relationship.

You can't change your partner or do the inner liberation work for her, but you CAN shift the dynamic of your relationship by not waiting for her to change before YOU embody the version of you that you are proud to be.

 

She WANTS to swoon over you, to be turned on by you, to open her body and soul to you.

SWOON will show you how to speak the language of your woman's erotic desire without abandoning your own needs

This is an opportunity to become more sexually magnetic, confident, and fulfilled in your relationship as you embody more of your personal power and become more brilliantly YOU.

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