Please don't settle for a sexless marriage!

Become the man your woman LOVES to LUST

Shift the dynamics in your relationship so your wife naturally initiates sex more, actually CRAVES sex with you, and looks at you with doe-eyed adoration throughout the day!

Join the SWOON beta testing round by October 21st!
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Ever feel Like your wife is annoyed by sex and there must be something wrong with YOU?

Trust me, it's not just you.

I shared out a survey to men on my YouTube channel and email list asking them if they ever experienced the following problems.

(The percentage shown next to each statement indicates the amount of men who DO experience that problem, or DO feel that way.)

Take a look at the results so far:

Clearly... if you have experienced any of these problems... you are DEFINITELY not alone in that.

Here are a few other struggles survey respondents shared -- can you relate to any of these?

Sex is not a priority for her - she does not think about, initiate or consider sex unless I bring it up or pursue her.

I feel when she gives into my advances, she lets me do it out of duty. This builds resentment in her. I try to pick up on clues, if I do I will halt sexual advances and opt for snuggling, or non sexual massage. Anything to feel connected.

I'm ready to give up, but I really just want this to work.

Obviously, this is not ideal.

And I bet THIS is what you actually want...

1.
Your wife initiates sex with YOU multiple times a week

And when she does, you feel genuinely desired by her, wanted by her, appreciated, and massively turned on by it

2.
You're having the best sex of your lives together

In bed, she's more present, open, and uninhibited than ever before, and the rest of the day there's a chemistry and connection lingering between you that is PALPABLE

3.
Your marriage makes you feel like a swoon-worthy stud

Because you're having GREAT sex consistently, you feel full of confidence and purpose, which just makes you even more irresistible to her;)

And now I bet you're wondering, 

How can you make this your ACTUAL life??

SWOON

The Masculine Magnetism course

In SWOON, my brand new course for men, you'll learn how to master key emotional, communication, and sexual skills necessary to shift the sexual dynamics in your relationship so SHE feels sexually magnetized to YOU...

... so you can spend more of your time and energy actually enjoying phenomenal sex together (instead of trying to figure out how to NOT feel like a burden every time you initiate sexual intimacy)

Communicate in a way that will get you REAL, honest answers to the questions that matter most so you can address the root cause of her low libido
Learn the sexual techniques that matter most - the ones that will help her feel safe enough to surrender into deep, life-changing vaginal orgasms
Cultivate and harness your own sexual energy more intentionally to feel more powerful, magnetic, and grounded in your own body 

By the time you finish SWOON, here's what you'll be able to do:

01

Have conversations about sex with her that are actually effective and enlightening 

Perhaps you've already tried talking about why she's lost enthusiasm for sex, but it didn't go anywhere, and she accuses you of being "obsessed with sex" when you try bringing it up again.

Maybe you've been struggling to find the right words and questions to get the conversation going and it keeps getting put off until the "right time".

Either way, SWOON will give you the "Now We're Getting Somewhere!" communication hacks that will lead to real improvements in your love life.  

You'll learn:

  • Why she says "I don't know" when you ask her what she wants sexually and how to help her get clarity so she can give you something you can work with to make things better
  • How to talk about lesser-known ways of experiencing turn-on and sexual fulfillment using the Erotic Blueprints framework
  • 10 conversation-starters you can ask her so you can understand what's really blocking her sexual energy from flowing freely with you 

02

Make sex with you feel addictive (and healing!) to her

This can be a tough one to hear, but sometimes her low libido is just a reflection of how much she's actually enjoying sex.  But don't worry!  No matter what your skill level is right now, you can learn to have the best sex of your lives together! 

SWOON will teach you:

  • How to create safety for her sexual surrender (without sacrificing the sense of danger that can actually be a huge turn-on)
  • How to read her body language so well she says, "how do you know my body better than I even do??"
  • A step by step process to giving her a healing yoni massage and sacred spot massage to release tension and trauma in her vagina, re-sensitize her pussy, and unlock her natural potential for vaginal orgasms! 
  • What she needs from YOU in order to have the "holy grail of female orgasms"... the cervical orgasm!

03

Embody Masculine Magnetism by mastering your own sexual energy

When you understand your sexual energy as life-force energy, which is infinitely available to you, you can harness it to become a much more potent, powerful, grounded, and attractive version of yourself! 

And it just so happens that the practices you'll use to harness that sexual energy will also give you UNBELIEVABLE sexual stamina 💪

So by the end of this module, you'll know how to...

  • Orgasm without ejaculation so you can cultivate and HARNESS more of your life force energy for more mental clarity, more energized workouts, and the kind of focused presence that is increasingly rare and VERY attractive!
  • Increase your sexual stamina so you can make love long enough for her body to open to her true orgasmic potential and give her deep vaginal orgasms
  • Become multi-orgasmic and enjoy full-bodied pleasure that actually nourishes you with love and energy instead of leaving you feeling a little guilty and depleted

And that's not all!

SWOON students will get access to a full bonus course,

"Seven Seductions"

Just because you won't NEED to seduce her as often doesn't mean you won't still WANT to, right?  ;)

In Seven Seductions, you'll learn how to embody each of the seven masculine archetypes that make a woman's heart and pussy flutter 💦   

Play with each of them, and see what seductive powers you can unlock!

Here are three of my favorites:

Artist

THE EMBODIMENT OF

Vision, Perception, Creativity

Warrior

THE EMBODIMENT OF

Strength, Protection, Courage

Sage

THE EMBODIMENT OF

Wisdom, Depth, Spirituality

(Find out what the other FOUR archetypes are when you join SWOON!)

About your instructor

Michelle Martinez, MPH

  • Certified Female Sexuality and Tantric Sex Coach. Michelle is trained in the Vital & Integrated Tantric approach to sex, love, & relationship coaching through the Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality, where she also received specialized training in Female Sexuality and Tantric Sex for couples.
  • Trauma Researcher. With a PTSD research team in Seattle, Michelle has co-authored 16 publications appearing in the American Journal of MedicineMedical Care, the Journal of Clinical Psychology, the Journal of Alternative and Complementary Medicine, and the Journal of Traumatic Stress, as well as a chapter on Post-traumatic Stress Disorder in the 4th Edition of Integrative Medicine
  • Mindfulness Expert. Michelle spent a decade of her career in psychology research labs, exploring the benefits and mechanisms of change for therapies such as Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction and Dialectical Behavior Therapy on trauma and depression, which now inform her coaching practice.
I believe that deeply embodied, connected, full-of-love sexual intimacy can actually support the spiritual evolution and enlightenment of humanity. So that's what I'm here to serve.

Still not sure?

Frequently Asked Questions

What will the investment for this course be like?

When the final version is ready, I will likely sell this course for $497.  Beta-course participants will get access for $100 or less, since the beta version won't be as polished as the final.  They will get other perks, though, such as live calls with me, and influence over the course curriculum based on their own needs and experiences.

When will it launch?

I am planning to launch the beta-course version of SWOON to the waitlist by the end of October 2024.  The final version should be ready for new students in January 2025.

 

Will beta-course participants be able to offer suggestions for improvement?

YES!  In fact, I am counting on it! 

That is one of the huge benefits of running a beta-round before the official launch -- getting the crucial feedback from real participants to understand which pieces of the curriculum are the most impactful, which parts can be discarded, and what needs to be added in.

Will there be any live calls in the beta-course?

YES! There will be four (4) initial group calls in October, and more after the content is released to dive deeper into each module.

What if it doesn't work? Will there be a refund?

YES. My programs always offer a money back guarantee because I don't believe you should pay for something that does not deliver on the promise it made.  

The beta-course, however, will not offer a refund because it is inherently experimental, and discounted accordingly.  While I have plenty of reason to believe it will be incredibly effective, I don't feel comfortable making guarantees about the results until I've tested it out with real clients. That's what the beta-round is all about.  

 

I don't think this will help me because the problems in my sex life are mostly my partner's fault / her issues.

It is entirely possible that your sex life is suffering because of stuff happening on your partner's end -- their own sexual blocks, insecurities, defensiveness, etc.  

But your partner is still responding and reacting to your energy, on some level... so you won't know if you can get a sexier, more secure and self-assured version of them, until you've brought a sexy, secure, and self-assured version of YOU to the relationship.

You can't change your partner or do the inner liberation work for her, but you CAN shift the dynamic of your relationship by not waiting for her to change before YOU embody the version of you that you are proud to be.

 

INITIAL coaching call DATEs & TIMES:

21st October - 5pm PST
23rd October - 12pm PST 
25th October - 12pm PST
28th October - 5pm PST

Not available at any of the times above?  

Email me at michelle@michelle-martinez.net to discuss other options

NOTE: MORE CALLS WILL BE SCHEDULED AFTER COURSE CONTENT IS RELEASED

Be the first to get the course!

Michelle

If you are tired of waiting for the sexual dynamics in your relationship to change and you're ready to proactively become the man who lights up your wife's heart and pussy like no other man ever has... 


... then it's time for SWOON!

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