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Tantra for Couples 

Explore Deeper Sexual Connection & Pleasure with Private Couples' Coaching

Partners who regularly practice tantra together may experience...

A heightened awareness of energy movement in their bodies

Recognition of divine presence in themselves and in their partners

Less routine or habitual sex, and more intuitively guided lovemaking

More expansive states of pleasure and orgasm

More open, honest, and compassionate communication leading to deeper intimacy

More sensitivity in the genitals

An awareness of orgasmic capacity throughout the body

A stronger focus on building deeper and longer-lasting pleasure, supported by more foreplay and slower sex, rather than seeking orgasm as the "goal" of sex

The capacity for sexual intimacy to be a container for personal expression, growth, and healing from sexual conditioning and past trauma



“Tantra is the religion of the body. Of course it goes higher, but it never leaves the body; it is grounded there.”

Osho

The best, most gratifying sex of your life is still in front of you. Take the next step...

What Makes Tantric Sex "Tantric"?

Contrary to what you may have heard, tantra is not about sex, specifically. It is a body of spiritual practices that existed on the Indian subcontinent from about 500AD to 1500AD, and several schools of tantra emerged in India, Tibet, China, and even Japan. Tantra is essentially an approach to viewing the world and human experiences, and because sexuality is a major aspect of our human experience, a tantric approach to sex is a significant shift from the way most of us have been raised to think about it.


Here's an outline to help explain how the philosophy of tantra informs the tantric approach to sex...

Tantric Philosophy


  • Awakening to Your Essence: You are not defined or identified with the things you experience: you are not your sensations, your emotions, your thoughts, or your desires. You are the pure consciousness that experiences all those others things. Realizing this does not require years of isolated meditative practice available only to a select few; it can be realized in regular, everyday experiences, available to all.
  • Liberation from Conditioning: Because your essence is consciousness itself, and not any of the thoughts or beliefs that you experience, you are not bound to them. You are not bound to the feeling of guilt when you experience sexual pleasure, or the pain of past trauma. We can become very attached to these familiar feelings; not everyone is willing to be free from their constrictions, and that's okay!  But it takes energy to maintain falsehoods, those who are open to liberation will discover new stores of energy, freshness, and aliveness.
  • Non-Dualism: There is consciousness/divinity in everything (that which exists, as well as the field of pure potential). This means that the body and the material world are no less divine than the mind and other immaterial forces. Our embodied human lives and all the pain and pleasure they contain are not meant to be transcended in order to achieve enlightenment; they are meant to be embraced and experienced as consciously as possible to help us realize the liberation. 

To learn more about the philosophy and practices of classical tantra, I recommend reading Christopher Wallis' book, Tantra Illuminated, and taking his free online course, Foundations of Tantrik Yoga.

Tantric Sex


  • Mutual influence between sex and consciousness: Your sexual fantasies, your emotional state during masturbation, and your cultural conditioning all impact the quality of consciousness that you bring to sex with a partner, and the quality of your consciousness impacts how you experience sex.
  • Sexual energy as fuel for spiritual awakening: Sexual energy is life force, and you can choose to repress it, scatter it aimlessly, or channel it intentionally into high-level states of energetic vibration and consciousness. Sexual energy and spiritual energy are basically the same, and can morph into one another in an endless loop.
  • Sex as sacred: Because in tantra, everything is sacred, divine, conscious. Your desires, your pleasure, even your shadows and your shame, are sacred.  
  • Non-Performative: "Regular" sex tends to be focused on achieving orgasm as a goal, therefore measuring success by how well that goal is achieved for both partners (frequently leading to performance anxiety and faked orgasms). Tantric sex shifts the focus to the moment-to-moment unfolding of sensation and pleasure, allowing parters to be more embodied, impulsive, and free to follow the sexual energy wherever it takes them.
  • Focus on energy, not ego: We often use sex (and our sexual partners) to mean something about our value, status, or skills as lovers. But this mentality limits us from having deeper experiences. When we allow sex to be guided by energies wiser than our egos, and ourselves to the flow of that energy within and between us, sex can take on a more primal, authentic, and deeply nourishing quality.
  • Spiritual liberation through sex: So many of our deepest wounds and triggers are buried in layers of our sexuality. If we are willing to compassionately confront our sexual pains, fears, and judgments as they arise, sex becomes a sacred container for spiritual liberation. 


FREE Introductory sessions available!

Offer ends July 31st, 2020

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What to expect from your private coaching sessions

Now that you've familiarized yourself with what tantra and tantric sex are all about, let's get into the specific tools and practices you'll be learning during your coaching sessions!

Sensual Massage

Sensual massage -- which refers to massaging a partner's lingam (penis) or yoni (vulva & vagina) -- is a beautiful opportunity for one partner to dedicate intentional time to the relaxation, sexual healing, and expectation-free pleasure of his or her partner. It is NOT the same as typical "fingering" or a "hand job," and once you experience the quality of presence, connection, and pleasure from this practice, it is likely to become one of your most-requested date night activities!

5-Senses Turn-On

Explore how to use all five senses to build presence and sexual anticipation through the 5-Senses Turn On practice. This session includes the following communication & intimacy practices:

  • Desires/Fears/Loves
  • Breathwork for Lovers

Full-Body Orgasm

Your whole body and nervous system has the capacity for pleasure, and it is possible to spread that sexually charged energy throughout your body.  In this practice, one partner will give pleasure to the other partner, so the receiver can focus on enjoying and expanding the sensations of turn-on that make full-body orgasm possible.  This session also includes 3 guided communication and intimacy practices:

  • The Reveal
  • Eye Gazing
  • Sex/Love/Spirit Breath


Valley Orgasm

In this practice, one partner will give pleasure while the other receives, which will allow the receiver to focus on relaxing deeply into his or her pleasure. You will use a specific breathing technique to create an orgasmic loop through your body and eventually surrender into a valley orgasmic state.  This session also includes two guided communication & intimacy practices: 

  • Soul Gazing
  • Alchemical Breath

Sexual-Spiritual Lovemaking

This practice is grounded in a shared intention that you have as a couple, and then builds sensitivity and energetic awareness throughout the pelvic floor, preparing you for super-conscious lovemaking. This session also includes the following communication and intimacy practices:

  • The Reveal
  • Soul Gazing

Primal Sacred Sex

Learn to use primal breathing to release, activate, and open a specific energy that you want to channel and work with (e.g. an archetype, an element,  a quality). This session also includes 3 communication and intimacy practices:

  • Desires/Fears/Loves
  • Eye Gazing
  • Breathwork for Lovers

Chakra Lovemaking

Working with chakras by bringing awareness to these areas of the body can help you connect with your energy body and the different flavors/qualities it can have. In this session, you'll use your sexual turn-on to activate a specific chakra, which can produce a shift in consciousness. In this session you will also be guided through:

  • Desires/Fears/Loves
  • The Bubble
  • Eye Gazing

Sex Magic

In Sex Magic, sexual pleasure and turn-on are moved through each of the 7 chakras, with a shared intention to manifest a specific, vividly visualized desire.  This practice will also introduce you to the following:

  • Creating a shared 5-Senses Reality
  • Agreeing on your Relationship North Star
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Healing to me as a survivor of religious trauma and a high control religion

Tantric practices have helped me to connect with my pussy and my self in deeply nourishing, healing and blissful ways that have brought so much more pleasure into my days and helped me to shift deeper underlying blocks. I have also experienced connection to universal consciousness in a way that transcends what I have felt or believed before and has been very healing to me as a survivor of religious trauma and a high control religion. Coming into the Tantric space was daunting at first and I was worried, I won't lie, but now I love these mystical practices.

Tantra helped me heal my relationship to sexuality and men

Tantra helped me heal my relationship to sexuality and men. I learned to open my heart and my pussy in a way that gives me so much pleasure.

Camille Picazo - Pleasure Coach

You can never really get bored when exploring tantra!

Tantra has helped me connect so deeply with my lovers and myself. It turns something beautiful into something so deeply divine. Having full body experiences that send me into ecstatic or emotional states that make me feel truly satisfied after and feel connected to the universal consciousness and merge with my partner mind, body and soul in the way we all deeply (often unconsciously) crave.

Also on a physical level it has opened my up so so many types of orgasmic experiences beyond anything I could have images before going on this journey. It's a deep meditation, a celebration, an art form! You can never really get bored when exploring tantra!

Luna Agneya - Sensual Artistry

Tantric Sensuality 

Learn to build slow, relaxed, connected pleasure to expand the  orgasmic potential in yourself & your partner


4 sessions

  • Sensual Massage
  • 5-Senses Turn-On
  • Full-Body Orgasm
  • Valley Orgasm

Tantric Sex

10-Week Deep Dive


12 sessions

  • 4 individual sessions (2 per partner) to establish core desire for coaching and learn solo tantra practices
  • 8 couples sessions (includes all sessions listed above)
  • Audio guides for continued home practice
  • 48 hour no-fee session cancellation policy

Sexual Energy

Learn to use special breathing techniques and chakra activation to move sexual energy through your bodies


4 sessions

  • Sex-Spirit Lovemaking
  • Primal Sacred Sex
  • Sex Magic
  • Chakra Lovemaking

FAQ

Are these sessions in person or online?

All of my coaching services are provided through online platforms (Zoom) exclusively.

Are we supposed to have sex during the session?

No - I will guide you through a few tools and exercises that focus on compassionate communication and deepening intimacy which you will complete together during our session. However, when it comes to the lovemaking practices, I will simply walk you through them and make sure you understand how to do them, so you can move directly into the new sexual practice when I log off the call.

What if one of us gets triggered or upset during the session?

A big part of my job as your coach is to make sure that the container feels safe for both of you. If one of you gets triggered or upset during the session, we will take time to address what has come up and move through an integration process before moving on, so that neither of you are pushing yourselves into a practice when it does not feel right.

I've heard tantra focuses a lot on masculine and feminine energy. Is this program inclusive of couples who are not heteronormative?

Absolutely! You do not need to be in a cis, straight, heteronormative couple to practice tantra. I prefer to use "yin" and "yang" energy, because these energies, often referred to as masculine and feminine sexual energies, reside in every human, and we all have the capacity to cultivate, experience, and play with both energies. 

I am in a polyamorous relationship. Can you coach more than two partners at a time?

In situations like these, I will leave it up to you and your partners to decide which TWO of you will attend each coaching session, as the practice and tools are learned most effectively between two people at a time.

Will we receive any support in between sessions?

Yes! I will provide accountability to you during the week, send you with PDFs and audio guides to help you remember how to do these practices in between sessions and share any additional resources I have that can support you on your tantric journey together.


Begin your tantric journey TODAY

Now is the PERFECT time for you and your partner to explore the tools and practices of tantra that can elevate your sexual experiences with more primal intuition, energetic sensitivity, and expansive pleasure for the rest of your lives

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