Unsubscribe from distracting beauty and body comparison.
If your body image issues have become a road block to attracting the soulmate relationship of your dreams, embarking on a high visibility career that would actually light you up, or simply showing up at events because you don't feel "cute" enough to go out and socialize...
... then precious time is being wasted.
Does this sound familiar?
"Sorry honey, I'm just really not in the mood to have sex. I've had a terrible body image day."
"I think learning burlesque / ballet / pole fitness / belly dancing would be fun, but I don't have the body for it."
"I'm not tall enough / fit enough / handsome enough for someone like her to be interested in me, there's no use trying to talk to her."
"I'll start dating again when I've lost 15 pounds..."
Trust me, I have SO been there.
LOVE YOUR BODY
LOVE BEING EMBODIED AND BEING YOURSELF
When you become unshameable, you'll love your body more, yes... but that's not the most interesting thing that happens.
People with rock-solid body confidence are not relying on having perky breasts, muscular arms, smooth skin, a big dick, or a bubble butt to feel worthy of sexual attraction and other yummy things.
They just glow with charisma and security in themselves.
It's not about looking like a Victoria's Secret model or the guy on the cover of Men's Fitness.
It's about being in control of your own mind and beliefs.
Unmanipulated by the images designed to trigger your insecurities.
Knowing how to stay focused on living your best life, even when other people project their shadows and baggage onto you and try to drag you into their own limited, distorted ideas of what makes someone magnetic and worthy of attraction.
That's what it means to be UNSHAMEABLE.
I know what it's like for physical insecurities to feel like a constant cloud over your life.
I know what it's like for bad body image to become an excuse to not enjoy pleasure and intimacy with someone.
To not feel worthy of someone else's lust, and their love.
I know what it's like for a beautiful moment to be ruined because I feel ugly, unsexy, or invisible compared to someone else and it impacts my mood the rest of the day.
I know what it's like to put off doing the things you want to do -- starting a YouTube channel, taking that beach vacation, getting that fabulous outfit, asking that sexy person out -- until you feel more attractive.
And NOW I know how to snap out of it
Between three therapists, eight years of researching mindfulness practices, and exploring sacred sexuality practices...
... I've discovered a LOT of effective ways to snap out of body shame when I feel it coming on.
And over time, I just feel it less and less frequently anyway.
I'm less vulnerable to insecurity about my body and beauty.
Less triggerable.
Less shameable.
And I want that for you too.
30 Days to Body Confidence Mastery
In this program, I'm revealing 30 of the most effective and powerful things I do to keep me UNDISTRACTED by body and beauty comparisons and stay focused on being who I want to be in the world.
How does it work? It's quite simple:
What happens when you become UNSHAMEABLE?
More fun and pleasurable sex!
When you feel more confident in your body, exploring your sexuality will feel so much more fun, safe, and pleasurable, and you'll exude your natural erotic radiance like never before!
Less comparison, more connection.
When you cultivate stronger body confidence, the attention and energy once spent on figuring out how your attractiveness compares to others can be redirected to genuinely appreciating the fabulousness of people around you, and opening yourself to an ocean of love and support from them as well.
Confidence to pursue your dreams!
When you know you can handle someone coming after you for the thing you (used to) feel most insecure about, you're free to do it anyway. Start that YouTube channel! Audition for that role! Take that dance class! No one can stop you from living your best life when you've become unshameable.
Fearless self-expression
When you become unshameable, you are free to make your art, dress the way you want, post what's on your heart, and take up space in the world with your ideas. Allow your energy to get as big as you dare it to be!
All it takes is ONE breakthrough to change your life forever.
UNSHAMEABLE gives you 30 tools and strategies to free yourself from body shame, but you only need ONE that works to change your relationship to your body and beauty for the rest of your life.
And if you don't get a breakthrough like that? Get a full refund with the 30-day money back guarantee.
Here's a preview of what you'll learn:
#2 THE TONGLEN MEDITATION
This Buddhist-tantric meditation transforms your body pain (physical or emotional pain that you feel about your body or in your body) into a sensation of compassion and connection with all human beings who have experienced the same thing.
#11 the comparison swap-out
If your mood tanks every time you compare yourself to some impossibly gorgeous celebrity or a head-turning coworker, you'll love this one!
It's the perfect reframe to snap you out of pointless comparisons and trust that your beauty is enough.
#4 PLEASURE = BODY LOVE
Ever notice how it's virtually impossible to be angry or disappointed with someone who makes you feel good when you're around them?
Well, your relationship with your body works the same way! The more pleasure you experience in your body, the more gratitude and love you'll feel about it, and the harder it will be to get judgmental and critical.
Hi, I'm Michelle Martinez, MPH
I believe that sexual wounds, insecurities, and trauma are a public health issue, a root cause of the suffering and disconnection we experience as humans today.
And I believe that deep, connected, full-of-love sex can actually support the spiritual evolution and enlightenment of humanity. So that's what I'm here to serve.
Here's my story.
When I was 14, I started under-eating and over-exercising because all my friends were obsessed with being thin and I wanted to win that game. At my thinnest, I was 85 pounds (I'm 5'1"), and I'd gone through three different therapists and a nutritionist.
The breakthrough moment that got me to start eating enough again was realizing that I did not trust people to like and love me unless I was thin.
I didn't want to be a person who distrusted other people like that.
I did not want to think people were that shallow and that they could not see what else I had to offer.
But that wasn't the end of my body image journey.
In my early 20s, I worked as a server at a small, dimly-lit, super-intimate restaurant in Seattle.
It was the kind of place where regulars would convene every night, and the bartender would mediate conversations about politics, philosophy, and sex.
In an otherwise very sexually liberal environment, one of my female coworkers (let's call her Ashley) happened to be a conservative Christian, committed to not having sex until marriage.
One night, reflecting on Ashley’s abstinence, a male coworker remarked, “It’s such a shame. She has a body built for sex.”
Ashley had a very curvaceous body -- that va-va-voom-type body type that seems to be implied when someone's figure is described as "feminine" or "womanly".
Suffice it to say, that is not my own body type.
Immediately, I felt my heart beat faster and my gut clench.
It was the all-too-familiar feeling of body shame, usually triggered by an image or comment reminding me that my body shape is not the most sexy... not ideal... even "boyish," rather than womanly. That my body is a disappointment to the people I most want to attract.
I suddenly realized that he had put into words an idea that I'd been subconsciously internalizing for years, without even realizing it:
Some bodies are built for sex…and others are not.
And if that was true, what else did that imply??
That some bodies are worthy of sexual desire... and others are not.
That some bodies are worthy of sexual pleasure... and others are not.
That some bodies are worthy of the physical connection, passion, love, intimacy, power, ecstatic orgasm, and spiritual nourishment of a truly fulfilling sex life....
....and others are not.
No. I refuse to accept this.
And in a rare moment of being able to articulate and voice the exact empowering thing I wanted to say in response to something that triggered the hell out of me, I said, “Hey — ALL BODIES are built for sex.”
That includes YOU.
UNSHAMEABLE
Student Breakthroughs
Zach T.
UNSHAMEABLE Student
The one I've needed the most right now
"I think [Opposite Action] is the one I've needed the most right now...
This is also applicable to self. If you are inclined to shame yourself for not getting that promotion, or guilt yourself for not following through on something, or hate yourself for gaining 8 pounds... do the opposite.
Or being so mad at yourself and wanting to say all the negative self-talk for, perhaps, not doing the opposite when you wanted to or tried... do the opposite."
Janelle M.
UNSHAMEABLE student
It took me out of competition mode
"I love that you point out there are ways to have what we want most even without looking perfect.
The questions you asked really touched me and helped me reflect on what it is I do want and how I want to feel.
It also took me out of competition mode because I realized we may all actually be going for something different and I don't have to compete against other more beautiful or desirable women for what I want cause we may not even want the same thing."
Release the insecurities distracting you from becoming the grounded, magnetic, influential powerhouse you're really here to be...
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I do! You can get a full refund at any point within 30 days of purchase.
Here's what I have witnessed in my own body image journey and those of many others:
The better you feel about yourself, the better you treat yourself.
Feeling shitty about yourself usually only leads to self-sabotaging behavior, because a part of you feels that you deserve it.
But once you allow yourself to feel GOOD in your own skin, to do the things that light you up and turn you on without waiting until you feel "hot enough" for it all, THAT is when your motivation to be your most vibrant, gorgeous self will truly skyrocket!
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Invest With Confidence...It's Risk Free!
You'll have a full 30 days to request a full refund. If you complete the course and you don't experience a body image breakthrough that has been WELL WORTH your investment, just email michelle@michelle-martinez.net to get your money back, no questions asked.
Don't pass on your body baggage to the next generation.
If you don't do it for you, do it for your kids, your nieces and nephews, or anyone else in your life who needs a body confidence role model.