You probably swore to yourself that you'd never become THAT type of wife...
sexually frigid, never in the mood...
more turned on by a glass of wine and her latest Netflix binge than by a date night with her husband.
But ... did it happen anyway?
If your husband has been initiating sex over and over, never getting an enthusiastic response, I bet he's feeling lonely, neglected, and depressed... men aren't oblivious. He can feel if you don't want him like you used to.
Do you want to just "power through it" to meet his needs when your own body isn't ready? Probably not.
Do you want sex to be a favor you do for him, even when you don't actually feel turned on.... when you feel checked out, just waiting for it to be "done and over with"? I doubt it.
You want to reeeeeaaalllly, truly, want it ... and want HIM.
But when he asks what he can do to make you want sex more, you might struggle to find an answer.
So nothing changes.
And the relationship just keeps getting less sexy, less connected, less nourishing, and less interesting... until someone decides they can't go on like this anymore.
Getting slut-shamed, or watching other women get slut-shamed, and feeling like if you make one bad choice, you'll lose all your value and respectability
Being taught that sex is something that men TAKE from women, or that women GIVE UP to men
Being under the influence of drugs and alcohol for our earliest sexual experiences, not wanting it 100% (and even today, struggling to get in the mood without a cocktail or three)
Growing up in religions that lacked women in positions of real authority, and navigating sexual morality without priestesses or goddesses to be examples of sexual-spiritual POWER 
Getting pressured, coerced, or guilted into sex you didn't want to have, and never learning how it feels when sex is all about filling you up with what YOU need - emotionally, energetically, spiritually, and physically 
all that... Sacred sexuality practices draw from tao-tantric traditions, somatic awareness, visualization, breath work, self-pleasure, and energetic mastery to break down blockages that keep your sexual energy from flowing freely, opening your mind, body, and spirit to powerful -- some might say holy or sacred -- experiences of love and pleasure.
Cailin
I came to [Vixen] expecting growth in my sensuality, support for more sensual freedom, to explore deeper sides to pleasure and sex – I did not really expect the realizations, insights and growth spiritually…. Breaking down old conditioning that made me believe sexuality and spirituality were polar opposites and if you were one, you couldn’t be the other. So to be sexual meant I wasn’t spiritual, and vice versa. Full permission for me to be both.
Stacy H., USA
One of my biggest takeaways will be how my vastly improved relationship with my body has in turn vastly improved my relationship with the divine.
I find that I'm no longer so focused on my appearance and therefore have capacity for far deeper experiences.
Michelle Panning, Australia
I wanted to work through my resistance to self-pleasure and experience orgasm without a vibrator. I got what I wanted! During the course of working with Michelle, I was able to have a squirting orgasm! I feel so much more anchored in my body and way less resistance to self-pleasure.
I experienced states of pure ecstasy when I was doing my sessions with Michelle and I know this is just the beginning for me.
I feel way more open to the orgasmic potential of my body. Before I was CERTAIN that it was impossible for me to have an orgasm and while I may not be having full-body orgasms YET, I feel the absolute potential for them in my body. I could see all the ways that I was blocking myself from pleasure and now I am open to the endless possibilities of my body and my pleasure potential. Thank you, Michelle!
Brit, Croatia
I did pussy love work with Michelle which helped me to honor my body for who she is right now. It was empowering, and I don't think I'll ever look at my body the same way again. I have enormous respect now for the body I have even though there are things I want to change to become healthier.
I wholeheartedly recommend working with Michelle if you're ready to dive deep and do the work in and outside the sessions. She is an incredible coach, and is such a natural at holding space. I feel so thankful that I had the opportunity to work with her!
Here's a peek inside the GATEWAY course (tap each arrow to see the lessons inside each module)
Once you know these foundational skills, there's no limit to the sexual-spiritual depths of yourself you can discover!
I believe that sexual wounds, insecurities, and trauma are a public health issue, a root cause of the suffering and disconnection we experience as humans today.
I believe all bodies are built for sex, and that deeply embodied, connected, full-of-love sexual intimacy supports the spiritual evolution and enlightenment of humanity.
So that's what I'm here to serve.
Although not absolutely necessary to complete the pussy practices in GATEWAY, yoni (pussy) pleasure tools like the jade egg and yoni wands can help you reach places that may be hard to reach with your hands, and add a special ceremonial quality to it all.
Yoni Pleasure Palace ships globally, so you can use your $50 AUD ($32 USD) gift voucher to treat yourself to any of their products, including:
I'm not trying to scare you, but if you fail to figure out what needs to change in order for you to feel open and eager to sexual connection with your man, there's a lot that you stand to lose.
From Vitamin O by Dr. Natasha Janina Valdez
We all know those people: the ones who seem so comfortable and confident in their own skin and can draw people to them with a magnetic sex appeal...
....all without being conventionally "hot."
How do they do it?
Body confidence.
Inside UNSHAMEABLE, you'll find 30 unique mindset hacks, embodiment practices, and other tools that I use personally every day to keep myself from getting caught in body and beauty comparison traps
(annnnd snap myself out of them MUCH FASTER if they do happen)
By the end of the series, you'll have a handful of easy, practical, go-to tools that ACTUALLY WORK to help you....
What I love best about this series it that YOU PROBABLY WON'T FINISH IT.
"Huh? Why is that a good thing?"
Because the reason you won't finish it, is that you'll find a few tools and practices within the first half or so that are SO EFFECTIVE for you, that you feel no need to finish the rest.
And that's the beauty of it:
"I love that you point out there are ways to have what we want most even without looking perfect. The questions you asked really touched me and helped me reflect on what it is I do want and how I want to feel.
It also took me out of competition mode because I realized we may all actually be going for something different and I don't have to compete against other more beautiful or desirable women for what I want cause we may not even want the same thing."
- Janelle M.
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You'll have a full SIX MONTHS to go through the content of the course. If you complete the course and your love life has not significantly improved from more sexual joy, better sexual boundaries and communication, and having more fun expressing your one-of-a-kind sexiness, you can still get a full refund on your investment.
Well... I find that when something is a genuine priority in my life, I make the time. I watch less TV, I avoid mindless scrolling on social media, I figure a way to keep coming back to it, little by little, day after day.
I won't sugarcoat this, you can't get the benefits of this program without putting in the time. But fortunately, it doesn't require much time to make consistent progress and even the busiest person will be able to complete this course within a couple months (and some MUCH quicker than that!). Here's why:
It's true that Vixen is great for women in relationships, because they can shape their existing sex life into something that feels much more enticing, pleasurable, and aligned for them...
...but it might be even MORE impactful for you if you're single, because you'll start to magnetize potential partners who are drawn to the more radiant, seductive, confident version of yourself that you'll become!
And even without new partners, you'll find yourself enjoying your own body and sexuality WAY more as you embody an erotic aliveness that can turn heads and open doors in surprising and delightful ways ...
This fear is REAL! Sometimes we avoid our own sexual liberation because a part of us is afraid that deep down we are actually insatiable sluts and we don't want to become "that type of woman."
The good news is that as you cultivate and build your erotic energy throughout Vixen, you'll have the Safety and Boundaries trainings from Module 2 that will ensure you are staying in alignment with what's true for you, and not betraying your core values.
And if you're worried your libido will skyrocket to the point where your partner can't keep up and you'll become sexually frustrated in the relationship, remember that your sexual energy is life force energy and it can be transmuted to serve many other purposes beyond sexual connection and orgasm, such as a creative breakthrough in your career!
There are no live calls for this course, but that doesn't mean you're gonna be left hanging to figure out everything on your own. See the next question....
YES! You will have direct access to me throughout the course. Just leave a comment with your question or breakthrough inside ANY lesson, and I'll respond to you there. It usually takes me less than 24 hours, because I monitor comments pretty closely.
If you have a question that is too personal to share in the comments section, you can always email me directly at michelle@michelle-martinez.net
YES! I have a money-back guarantee that operates in two ways:
The "this isn't what I expected" 7-day money back guarantee: Once you enroll in Vixen, you'll have 7 days to poke around and explore the course to make sure it's what you expected it to be. If you decide you don't want it after all, just let me know within 7 days and you'll get a full refund, no questions asked.
The "I gave this an honest effort and it didn't work for me" 6-month money back guarantee: No one should have to pay for a product that simply does not work for them. So if you complete the course and you do not get the results you expected within six months, you are eligible for a full refund. (The only catch here is that you'll need to show me that you completed the course)
It is entirely possible that your sex life is suffering because of stuff happening on your partner's end -- their own sexual blocks, insecurities, defensiveness, etc.
But your partner is still responding and reacting to your energy, on some level... so you won't know if you can get a sexier, more secure and self-assured version of them, until you've brought a sexy, secure, and self-assured version of YOU to the relationship.
You can't change your partner or do the inner liberation work for him, but you CAN shift the dynamic of your relationship by not waiting for him to change before YOU embody the version of you that you want to be.
It's not your fault if you're so disconnected from your sexual needs that you have no answer when your man asks "what do you want in bed?"
Or if the first thing you see when you look at your body is some "flaw" that disappoints you.
But the patriarchy isn't going to fix what it broke.
You have to unravel the centuries of backward, toxic conditioning and claim sexual joy for yourself ...
... so that you can feel the delicious ache of desire in your heart and the pulse of turn-on in your pussy toward the wonderful man you share life with every day.
For his benefit? Sure. But mostly, for your own.
I promise you it's possible, and that Vixen will help you get there.
Try it for yourself, risk-free, with our 6-month guarantee
