by Michelle Martinez

Why women’s sexual desire often drops after marriage

March 31, 2024 | Relationships, Sacred Sexuality

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Why do (some) women lose interest in sex after marriage?

It's a frustrating phenomenon on both sides:

HE feels like there's been some kind of bait-and-switch...

... and SHE misses that feeling of sexual aliveness in herself and is just as confused about what happened to it.

In this video, I'll offer an explanation for why this can happen (one influencing factor out of many potential factors) called "The Lost Plot Phenomenon"

Here's what we'll cover:

  • How to know if this video is for you
  • Who I am and what I do
  • Is it common for women to experience less sexual desire after getting married?
  • What could be happening in these situations (The Lost Plot Phenomenon), and how it relates to women's sexual conditioning
  • Do you believe your sexuality is for YOU or just for HIM?
  • Should you just have sex to meet HIS needs even if you have no desire of your own?
  • The solution!
  • How MELT: The Art of Slow and Tantric Sex can help you "extend the plot" and find a new role for sex in your relationship

Want to learn more about MELT: The Art of Slow and Tantric Sex?

About the author, Michelle Martinez


With degrees in Psychology and Public Health, and VITA-certification as a Sex, Love, and Relationship Coach, Female Sexuality Coach, and Tantric Sex Coach, Michelle is on a mission to help women re-establish loving, pleasurable, and powerful relationships with their bodies and sexuality through mindfulness, tantra, and cultural change.

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