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 how truly sexy (and sexual) you are 

Seriously. This is important.

You might not think you're sexy--or sexual--and I get it. I know what you're going through. 

Most days, you feel "fine" about your body, but this sense of apathy is numbing.  Feeling just "meh" about it is your default state of being, and you might not even realize it. Or realize what it's costing you.

The truth is that it's holding you back from experiencing a real sense of connection and deep gratitude toward yourself. This is the body that has carried you throughout your entire life and made your sacred human experience possible... but you find yourself tolerating it instead of celebrating it. 

And because of that, you aren't fully expressing and enjoying yourself sexually.

The shame you feel about your body, even if it only happens "sometimes," creates a disconnect between you and others and gets in the way of experiencing your potential for true intimacy and expansive states of pleasure.

But, it doesn't have to be this way. And it's certainly not your fault.

You can reach an embodied experience of worthiness time and time again. You have the capacity to build a THRIVING relationship with your own body, which happens to be the key to fulfilling partnerships, the best sex of your life, and genuine sisterhood with other women.

You came into this world naturally knowing how to do that. But a lot has happened since then.  Now you just need to remember...

free series

Body Confidence Mastery

We all know those people: the ones who seem so comfortable and confident in their own skin and can draw people to them with a magnetic sex appeal, all without being conventionally "hot."  How do they do it? Body confidence. And I've created a free series to help you get some of that deliciousness for yourself:

  • Stop comparing yourself to others and love the skin you're in
  • Feel magnetic and worthy of the love and sexy you truly desire
  • Form empowering habits and beliefs that create connection with yourself and others

“There is nothing more rare, nor more beautiful, than a woman being unapologetically herself; comfortable in her perfect imperfection.  To me, that is the true essence of beauty.”

- Steve Maraboli -

Meet Your Coach

Michelle Martinez, MPH

VITA-certified Sex, Love, & Relationship coach

I've always been a sexually curious person, but for so long, my body image kept me in a state of validation-seeking, rather than exploring my sexuality with worthiness and confidence. I let my insecurities about looking sexy get in the way of actually being sexual in an authentic way

My self-objectification cut me off from the beauty and pleasure of my own body.

Then I spent a year studying tantra and things finally began to shift in a deep and lasting way...

Body-First Transformation

The Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach

Other body image coaches will tell you to stop thinking about your body and put your focus elsewhere.

Not me.  I'm going to take you deeper into it.

Our deepest internalized beliefs are held in our bodies and in our energy -- not just our thoughts -- so the most transformative healing must include intimacy with the body.

I am trained and certified in the Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach (VITA), which blends insights from current research on the science of neurobiology and emotional healing with tantra-inspired energetic and sexual healing practices. With VITA coaching, you can expect mind-body transformation to happen rapidly, gently, and sustainably.

I was given tangible tools that were amazing and really helped me FEEL a difference in the way I relate in relationships.

Magda Yoc, Client


Michelle is receptive and intuitive in how she works with me each week. She knows how to meet me where I am and is patient and loving with me as she guides me through her thoughtful and deep practices. Michelle's beautiful voice keeps me focused and feeling safe as I explore parts of myself that may feel triggering.

Without pushing, she guides me through my triggers and I leave my sessions feeling relaxed and integrated.

I am grateful to continue working with Michelle because I know these sessions will allow me to learn to love my body more and more!

- Chelsea

I was motivated to sign up for coaching because I wanted to explore who I am and what I want sexually. I felt ready to explore and uncover resistance. I didn't want my past stories to define me and I wanted to create more inner freedom to open up to deeper connection and more pleasure!

Michelle tailored the sessions to my specific needs both physically and energetically... Michelle's body and heart wisdom and masterful guidance have allowed me to expand my frame of reference around love, cultivate a deeper connection to my current partner, and to begin to break free from shame.

Michelle's sessions are fun and creative and I always felt safe. I LOVED this coaching and looked forward to them each week!

What's your body (love) type?

A lot of people think that "loving your body" means you have to love how your body looks, but that's not true.

In fact, there are at least 3 different ways that you can experience body love.  You can foster more gratitude, connection, and pleasure in your body as soon as you know which type of body love is most accessible and natural to you right now.

Take the quiz to find out how!